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Written by Hiteashi Desai
I have faced gender-based discrimination at every stage of life. Whether being the second daughter to my father or doing activities that are known to be masculine. My parents have been constantly criticized and pitied upon because they have only two daughters. Even after my birth one of my relatives suggested that my parents should try for a third child. My parents always shielded me and my older sister from this nonsense. As I got older I started to realize that I and my sister both of us were considered a burden on our parents, although our parents never saw us as a burden society made it look like that we are.
When I was in high school, I started my rifle shooting training and won 2 gold medals in district-level competition. my parents were more than happy, they told many of our relatives about my achievement, some of them were happy as I was the first person to ever won a gold medal in sports competition but some were not happy as my achievement should them  that  I am capable of achieving anything as their sons.
All my life one question has always stumble upon my mind is that why my parents were Discriminated for not having a son, Does it have to do with the fact that( in Hinduism) parents wonât get Moksha (eternal peace) after their death because they did not have a son to do their last rites and rituals? Or is it about the expenses my parents have to endure during mine and my sisterâs wedding or when they are old there will be no one to take care of them.
Why people donât think that daughters are capable enough to take care of their parents in old age and take up their own expenses. I know that I will be capable enough to take care of my parents and my parents know it too because they have made me capable enough to do so. My parents gave me and my sister enough space to grow and become our own person who can speak their minds freely without any fear or hesitation and for that Iâm thankful. I am thankful that my parents never taught me and my sister that we cannot do anything or achieve because we are girls.Â

















