#femisim

BUT YOU ARE TELLING ME WOMEN SAVING THE UNIVERSE IS BAD?????????

All the steps of wearing the intricate wedding gown, and each piece of ornament being put on.

The framework of the dress was almost going to burn her to death.

It restricted survival. And all was left of innocent girls before her was a grave full of wedding gowns and rock of self engraved names.

With every piece of cloth bravely ripped, was a step closer to hope and freedom.

Damsel shows the truth behind the glorified medieval beauty.

And for young mind of children's, it's more important than any 'top noth' CGI.

How far society has come to reconstruct the notion of beauty, where little girls no longer need to wear cages to look 'beautiful'.

It's a brave, brilliant, thoughtful fantasy genre movie for the new generations. Which is not adorned with beautiful lies. This is not a fairytale, it's an empowering movie for every kid to watch. 10/10

No, seriously. When people are opening their minds and trying to learn, don’t slam their minds closed by being a jerk. I know there are some people asking questions in bad faith, if you realize that’s what’s happening block and go, or just don’t interact. You don’t have to answer at all if you don’t want to, nothing says you have to interact to begin with. Just don’t be rude is all?  I remember when I was learning about feminism after escaping my edgy anti sjw phase as a kid. I would ask questions, pretty stupid ones sometimes, but I was being genuine and I would get shot down almost every time. It almost made me want to quit learning. It made me feel like I wasn’t welcomed in a community that was also meant for me as an afab person who identified with my agab at the time, but because I wasn’t as educated and didn’t know how to research I was treated like I was out to hurt people when I was just a dumb kid trying to learn.  The other day in some tiktok comments I saw somebody ask, pretty nicely might I add, if trans people experience something similar to body dysmorphia but with their gender instead. A very easy question to answer, but I saw somebody in the comments calling them ignorant and that they should just look it up on google.. Absolutely not, that’s so rude. Google can be hard to use, especially if you don’t know exactly what you’re meant to be researching. You don’t know what you don’t know, yknow? If you can’t answer the question then don’t, but don’t literally insult people for trying to learn.  I’d also argue that it can be a bit ableist to expect people to know how to research, or assume things are common sense. Some of us have learning disabilities. Fun fact, learning disablities don’t just stop once you leave school, they effect all learning. There are still some concepts that just won’t click in my mind, and it’s lead me to ask some goofy questions in the name of just trying to understand better. 

James Charles collabs with new celebs. He has millions of views and fans despite the grooming that was so public. He came back.

Kanye West has millions of fans as well. His songs are still used for trends. People still shamelessly support him and use him to hate on Taylor Swift, despite his antisemitism and the fact he hailed hitler.

Johnny Depp, despite being proven guilty on some accounts, has amassed so much love and respect and has caused so much hate towards Amber. Despite his other accusations.

Donald Trump is running again. He has, again, millions of supporters, despite the rape jokes and allegations and racism.

Yet if we look at women, they don’t bounce back the same way.

Colleen Ballinger is still made fun of constantly and used as a joke for grooming & creepy behavior. Yes, she deserves this. So does James Charles & Donald Trump.

Amber Heard got so many hate comments and death threats for something we couldn’t even be sure of. Sure, she faked a few things, but both Amber and Johnny were both victims and perpetrators yet only she is affected constantly by it. He has bounced back.

People could argue Lana Del Ray bounced back from her cultural appropriation allegations, but haters still use against her whenever they justify their hate against any successful woman despite her charitable donations and actually sincere apology.

Hey there fellow tumblr users.This is my first blog ever and it is just completely full of my opinions or well in some cases facts.

TW: suicide

So I don't think many people noticed but on 30th January the death anniversary of of Miss USA 2019 i.e.. Cheslie Kryst took place. Cheslie Kryst commited suicide by jumping off from her apartment in Manhattan .In her final letter she revealed that she was suffering from high functioning depression. While all of this happened, people around the world had formed their own opinions. According to them someone "gorgeous" could not have depression and commit a suicide as everyone loved pretty people and there could be nothing wrong with them .Fans commented on her post that they couldn't believe that someone who was a former Miss USA took their life and was suffering depression.

This is where the problem lies .Everyone expects people who live up to the beauty standards of the society as ""privileged, lucky ,happy, carefree" as if they don't have any problems in their life and their job is just to match the expectations of other people .It negatively impacts those people and makes them set unhealthy standards for themselves. Other than that, women who have big breasts ,ass ,nice lips etc. are constantly sexualized ,stereotyped and cat called by men. Most of the male population thinks that having features like that just exist to satisfy and appeal them which is not really true at all.

First of all we should get rid of the beauty standards set by the society like having round ass ,hourglass body ,big boobs ,nice lips ,acne- free face ,fairness ,good eyesight ,a male with a height more than 6ft,broad shoulders,good hands,muscular etc. .While all of these can just be preferences, they should not be unanimously accepted by majority which unfortunately has already happened .The root of this cause is also social media. Social media is FAKE. Make sure you know that before making assumptions about someone else's life. All of it is just an act .Try not to compare yourself with others .Remember EVERYONE is beautiful. Coming to an end ,it feels nice to finally have typed this out since all of this has been going in my mind for a week.