#feelsorry

“you’re not paying attention to me.” his lips curl into a pout as he desperately tries to catch jd’s attention. roman could barley go five minutes without someone at least acknowledging his existence. “it’s whatever, it’s not like i actually need affection or anything.” he sighs, a bit too dramatically, as he slumps down into his chair. “i’ll just sit here and suffer i guess.” 

Question One: Oscar, I have a couple that are friends that drive me crazy. Every time they see me, they tell me their same sad story repeatedly. I am tired of it but I really care about them what do I do? How do I help them? Answer: When you love and respect yourself more, you will make clear to them that you have heard their story enough. They need to work on a solution. You are going to love them enough to work it out. When they want to see you and you are available you will work them in provided they understand their feel sorry for me story will get no airtime. Question Two: Oscar, I have these outrageous and incredible thoughts coming in my head. Sometimes they seem to want me to do things I would never do. Why is this happening to me? I am afraid of these thoughts. Help me! Answer: I understand your feelings. Most of us have had thoughts like that pass through our heads. Here is what you must understand. These thoughts are like radio and tv channels you do not want to watch. When you get what you do not want, you change stations or change channels. Know this. It is one thing to discover a thought in our minds that we would never intentionally think. It is another to attach to them and be afraid we act on them. Three course of action are available to you 1. Know that you are not you thoughts. You are your actions. 2. Place a rubber band on your left wrist. Whenever thoughts come, snap you wrist with the rubber band and feel the sting. This will help you disassociate from the thought. 3. When the thoughts come, immediately exhale as hard as you can as if to blow them away from you. These three interventions should work. If you feel your situation becomes worse, let’s talk one on one more. #olove #askoscartuesdays #askmequestions#sadstory #feelsorry #questionsandanswers #askquestions #runnngscared #scaredofthedark#dontbeafraid #inquire #askmeanything #notafraid #askbelievereceive #askquestions #fears #quiz#fearfactor #intrusivethoughts #mentalhealthsupport #mentalhealthmatters #problemsolving #selflovefirst#selflovetips #selfloveclub #selflovejourney#selfhelpbook #selfhelptools  (at Mesa, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/BtNaZEpB9VW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1a1tggcjjy6sp

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        HELLO round three with @feelsorry !! after a couple months of disconnect we refound each other today and i have to say i’m so happy ?? nico joined my group not too long ago before doing a lil vanishing act ( haven’t we all tho?? ) and i was truly so worried we’d never chitchat again because we had the most amazing plots and the sweetest, sweetest brotp and we clicked instantly during the short time we interacted !! doing all the headcanons and gushing over things was gr8, it was so relieving to find a partner that was equally into our plots and just as excited. i’m hella hype to bring back our characters and get things started again and i’m soso happy that you found me on here again !!

🇮🇹ogni volta che ti dico addio il cuore si stringe e muoio un pò, per rinascere la prossima volta che ti rivedró....🇺🇸each time I say goodbye to you, my heart tightens and die a bit, up to next time I'll see you again #byemum #happyholidays #stepmommy #relax #sea #saygoodbye #ciao #feelsorry #missyoualready #stayhappy #waitforme #comebacksoon #ig_goodbay

#lemagtv #cheetostan #melania #holysurgery #pimpmyface #feelsorry (at Grand-Rosière-Hottomont, Brabant, Belgium)

一對來畫畫的外國情侶… 卻幫我看到了台灣人最讓我覺得不堪的一面… 這對黑人情侶在他們的位置上… 被台灣人當成了珍稀異獸來看待… 只因為…女生的頭髮很炫！ (在大小螢幕裡很常可以見到的編髮) 正因為這樣… 他們的繪畫過程不斷被打擾… 而且內容千篇一律： 1. 妳的頭髮好酷，我可以跟妳拍張照嗎？(不管三七二十一先按快門再說) 2. 你們畫的好可愛，是彼此嗎？能不能借我拍張照？(擠) 說真的…人家頭髮怎樣幹你屁事，是沒看到人家在忙嗎？人家答應讓你拍照了嗎？人家的畫幹嘛要借你拍，你誰呀？ 台灣人很熱情，但是熱情過了頭成了騷擾。 台灣人的熱情，不懂得先問過對方的需求，成了雞婆。 台灣人很熱情，熱情到無視對方的不悅，直達目的。 台灣人的熱情，為達目的，可以不擇手段強迫對方接受。 當然…不是每個台灣人都這樣，但是…總有壞粥的老鼠屎。多數外國人都重視隱私，相對於亞洲成長的觀念，即便在公開場合，外國人多半也很重視對方是否侵犯到私領域的狀況。所以當對方否決你的提問，就請不要再糾纏了。偏偏今天讓我看到的都是那些…糟糕至極的場面，逼的我得出面制止。可是很不幸的，被瘋狂打擾的那位女孩，當著我的面告訴我，「這不是你的錯，但是請原諒我，我下次不會再來，因為我無法被當成動物一樣看待。你不需要為他們辯解什麼，因為我看得出來你已經努力在幫我們排解那些惱人的狀況，但我懂這就是那些年紀大的人的特性，我也習慣他們看我的眼光，但我希望他們可以多尊重我一點。謝謝你，如果不是你我今天可能沒法完成這幅畫。掰掰。」 聽完她的話，讓我難過了很久，因為最美的台灣風景，卻也成了最殺風景的風景。所以，請不要再笑別的亞洲國家的人沒水準，因為在我們真正懂尊重別人之前，我們永遠沒那個資格。 #feelsorry （在 秀之藝術文化社-Show233）