#feelgod

Dont lie. If you are a teen girl and even a boy you must have felt jealous. But lets focus on the girl part as I am more experienced in that sector. So lets start ranting! 

Let me tell you about something interesting. Imagine you post a pretty and one-of-a-king photo on a social networking site and you get lots of attention. You are quite contended about yourself, 'cause we both know that these are a fuel to our self-confidence. But imagine your surprise and annoyance when you find quite a similar photo from one of your friend. And you know she is going to get better attention.

We, as teenage girls, want attention. Oh no we crave attention. Somehow, that feeling that you are good or attractive makes you feel good about yourself. But what happens when your friend gets the attention you feel you deserve or you dont get attention at all? Thats how things called depression and low self-esteem starts. 

Also Jealousy. You know, when you think about, its a good thing too. If you lead it in the right way. The thing you should do is when you feel jealous work towards it! Your friend gets more marks and is on the receiving end of many praises and admiration? Work harder! Your friend is thinner than you? Exercise! But there are things like beauty which are not in our hands. 

Even if we dont have the looks as the next girl, there would be something in us which makes us stand out. You are dark? But you are beautiful! You think you look like shit? But people envy your brains! You are fat and humongous? But you have that smart way of doing everything and you are so organised! So your job is to find your thing which makes you, 'you'. 

Now you have pondered hard and not found your hidden talent? Then dont worry. Think about your high moments of your life. See old photos and generally surround yourself with positive aura. 

Dont worry...the feelings will pass. Till then we have to deal with.

But one kind word to all the bitches who copy others: Be Yourself, Dont be such a Carbon Copy.

And to you girl: You are not alone, I am there with you! The only way to shut their big mouths is by being ourself. Hold your head high and show that they deserve your jhooti (Shoes).