#fatophobic

By pure coincidence, yesterday afternoon, I overheard a conversation next to me during lunch. 3 young women, discussing their partners and ideal partners. It sounded like this..."he has to have a body like this, arms like that and shoulders about this" , "he needs to perform this (oral sex) for me", etc, etc, etc. Literally all 3 sounded very close to each other subject / request wise. I look at one of them, casually making eye contact. She smiled and asked if I heard the conversation...I said yes, then she asked....What are your thoughts? We want a male opinion from someone that doesn't know us..... Ohhh she wasn't ready for my answer! I told them, "you can't request what you cannot offer" . Their jaws drop responding "can you explain". Look at yourselves in the mirror...You are all the opposite of the men you described. Plus do you perform oral sex in the same manner you asked for??? Silence....They were shocked I responded like that. They thought because, they had a ton of makeup, eye lashes, and some cleaveage showing, they are hot... Lol!!!! In a so called arbitrary manner with psychology data, I explained to them basic archetypical human nature. One of them even got teary eyed. Really!???? WTF? You are a FFC! (Fucking fat cow) and asking for a fitness model. It doesn't matter how much of a great person you are. Survival nature selects the stronger in the species. In the archetype of humanity breeding with that is no option for survival. Yes this is basic human /species survival! Because those are the receptors used at first sight and the ones that will push mating relationships to last. Don't ask for, what you can't offer!

It's not about fat or skinny! It's about being healthy! The fact is the majority of fat/obese people are more prone to health issues and ailments than skinny ones. Yes there are skinny people that are sick or in lack of health but that is a little percent compared to the fat-obese ones. Society cares or tries to push social acceptance toward the overweight, that is wrong we need to let the obese know that there is a way to be healthy. It takes dedication, strength and compromise. Defeat is not an option!

I’m really tired of seeing and hearing fat / obese women telling you and everyone about accepting who they are and self love. Body image and shaming…Well stop being a bitch (because you are in some or many ways jealous) yes !!!! You look and behave towards the fit /skinny people like we are the cause of your misery!!! You disgusting pig!!! Its unhealthy your state and behavior!!! You are not sexy, you take your clothes off for your partner and it’s disgusting. Stop fooling yourself, start making changes in health and lifestyle.

RE: Big Girls in Costumes

Ugh just.  Fuck.