Failure Project Day 15 greetings loves. today is the last day of this challenge for me, however, i didnāt want to just stop without saying why. i am grateful for this challenge because itās helped me to think about how i/we define failure, and what it really means to fail. so iāve been in a conversation with myself about what are actual failures, and how are what i/we sometimes name as failures, actually maybe reinforcing ableist and capitalist ways of thinking/being. for example, today i didnāt get my laundry done which has been on my to do list for a week. because instead i chose to rest after my client session, listen to free recordings of a conference on dreaming before they expire, and get a haircut which makes me feel good in my body. so did i āfailā at getting my laundry done, or complete all the tasks on my list? or did i āsucceedā at taking care of myself and doing things that bring me joy? or both? š¤ so i need to take a pause on this challenge to contemplate these things more. also iām curious how yāall think about and define failure because i donāt just want to keep talking to myself about this š¤£. seriously though, what are your thoughts about failure? how do you define it? what does it mean to you to fail? and while you think about all of that, here is my last post for this challenge: ... 1. i failed to fail enough for a daily challenge about failure š¤£. ... #KingYaaFailureProject #ThisBoisLife #FailureisImportant #WhatDoesItMeanToFail #HowDoYouDefineFailure #ProductivityDoesntEqualWorth #DoesNotGettingSomethingDoneEqualFailure ... [ID: text on white background that says: at some point you literally wonāt be able to shrink yourself to fit back into the old spaces, even if you wanted to.ā] (at Tulum, Quintana Roo) https://www.instagram.com/p/BqN-vapBiUKzkf9jLf6lgXA6Bt8DM493DFEnhM0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1mgyo95xfdtov