#exorgender

[PT: Binaryperformar].

[D: A rectangular flag with 9 horizontal stripes with third innermost stripes being thinner and second innermost stripes being even thinner. There's a triangular overlay going from top and getting wider near the bottom that imitates a spotlight light. All parts of the stripes not covered by that spotlight light have a darker and more saturated color than those within the spotlight. The colors of the stripes going top to bottom is a gradient from faded blue towards lavender in the middle and then towards raspberry pink. In each corner of the flag is a cerise pink wavy shape outlined thinly with light orchid pink and then thickly with blue. The shapes are bigger on the top than the bottom and altogether imitate curtains of a stage. In the center of the flag is a lavender star outlined with darker lavender. End ID].

Binaryperformar: A gender in which one feels one's binary gender identity is a performance; one feels as though one performs one's binary gender identity; one feels one's binary gender through lenses of performing; one feels connected to both being a binary gender and performing; or any other combination related to performing and one's binary gender.

[ID: A purple thin line divider shaded at the bottom. End ID].

Simplified alternative Exorgender / Xorgender flags

Exorgender / Xorgender - Binary gender(s)

These terms come from Set theory, in which EXOR/XOR reference "Exclusive OR", a logical operation that is true if and only if its arguments differ. In simple terms that means "one or the other but not both" or "either one or the other" or non-equivalence. A similar term referencing EXOR/XOR is Exorsexism (the linked coining post also has an explanation if my simplified one isn’t good!)

Flags were requested by anon, but are free for anyone to use. Help with image descriptions is appreciated!

Mandox & Womandox Pride Flags

Mandox | Womandox

Mandox Alt  w Symbol | Mandox Alt

Womandox Alt w Symbol | Womandox Alt

Mandox - from “man” and “paradox”. Both man and not a man.

Womandox - from “woman” and “paradox”. Both a woman and not a woman.

[ID: six pride flags.

First is the mandox flag. A pride flag consisting of 6 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, off white, yellow & purple.

Second is the womandox flag. A pride flag consisting of 6 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, off white, green & purple.

Third is the mandox alt. flag with symbol. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, a thick off white stripe, yellow, purple and black. Included overtop the stripes is the Mars symbol rotated 180 degrees.

Fourth is the mandox alt. flag. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, a thick off white stripe, yellow, purple and black.

Fifth is the womandox alt. flag with symbol. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, a thick off white stripe, green, purple and black. Included overtop the stripes is the Venus symbol rotated 180 degrees.

Sixth is the womandox alt. flag. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, a thick off white stripe, green, purple and black. 

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Stripe Meanings

Black Stripes: Paradox

Second Stripe: Prescriptive (Wo)Manhood

Third Stripe: Authentic (Wo)Manhood

Fourth Stripe: Ideobinary & Viabinary Genders

Fifth Stripe: Abinary & Atrinary Genders

Cisbinary: a conformant term describing someone who is cis* (cisgender/cissex/cisvestic/cismodal) experiencing a binary gender (aptobinary/xorgender).

Inclusive of cisqueer (neocis, cis femache), neobinary (bonusbinary, ambinary/mesobinary, yesbinary), and AGAB nonconforming (ANC) people (plus more).

[transcript: eight horizontal stripes colored with black, royal blue, cyan, double grey, pink, magenta, and black. End transcription]

Aptobinary: a term used to describe individuals who fit the gender binary, it encompass the experiences of:

people who exclusively, at all times and wholly identify as women, girls or female, with their female identity being feminine in nature;

people who exclusively, at all times and wholly identity as men, boys or male, with their male identity being masculine in nature.

Binary Intersex / Interapto / Interexor

An Intersex individual who is also Aptogender (one who considers one's self as fitting into the Gender Binary); A binary (Exor-) gendered Intersex person.

Labels under the Interapto/Interexor umbrella are Intersex Men / Males and Intersex Woman / Females.

Binary Intersex individuals may have any Modalities such as Ipso-, Ulter-, Cis-, Trans-, and so on. Birth assignments do not matter and are often complicated for Intersex individuals.

The first flag is a combination of the IHRA (previously OII) flag made by Morgan Carpenter and the Aptogender flag

The second flag is a combination of the original Intersex flag by Natalie Phox and the Aptogender flag

Though this term sounds similar to Interbinary, they are not synonyms/synonymous

Made for anon, OP is Intersex!

Help with IDs is appreciated!