When I was in 9th grade, I started thinking āWhat if I go on an exchange program?ā, at the time it seemed like a million years ahead of me and I was only starting High School, nevertheless, I went to the AFS National Office in San JosĆ©, asked to be given more information and well, I became a little obsessed. My original plan was to go abroad in 10th grade, little did I know I was going to end up taking a sabbatical after High School but letās not get derailed with my silly stories.
Going on exchange is a BIG decision, actually no, itās a MASSIVE one. Youāre given the opportunity of starting a new life, in a new country, new language, new people and new surroundings but as charming as that may sound, we feel a little threatened at some point and thatās when the what ifs appear.
Ā What if my family wonāt let me go?
What if they donāt accept me?
What if I donāt fit in?
What if⦠what if & what if�
Ā Simple, but very powerful words.
Luckily, my family was very open towards the idea of going abroad for a year. Back in the good oldā days my grandparents had the opportunity of hosting an exchange student from the US which was already mind opening and well, of course, my mom was thrilled to have a new sister so it wasnāt such a big deal if they let me go abroad. Ā
Ā If at this point, youāre sitting in front of a computer thinking should I really go? I would say, yes! Do it! Work hard for it, even if Iām not there yet, I know itās going to be a wonderful experience and one can learn so much from it.
Thatās all I can say for now, ttyl!