#evaluate yourself

Some people say they’re one thing when they’re really the other. Educate yourself and find a new perspective. (This is what I mean by “feminist.” If I put the word feminist in quotes in a post, take a look at this post. If I just type feminist, I mean an actual feminist, like myself).

please do NOT message my friends saying that you miss me when we talked for all of like 20 minutes total like two months ago...wtf pls don’t it’s kinda gross and very disturbing considering 

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If someone repeatedly blocks you on social media, Take the hint and move on with your life. It ain't that deep - they don't want to talk to you. I don't care if you wanna talk to them, don't cross that line. It's creepy and stalker behavior.

it's funny how we'll know someone or maybe just see someone portraying qualities that we don't like and we'll criticize it and say "i'll never be like that" or "i'll never do that" and then over time we've turned into the thing we once hated. ironic isn't it? we'll complain about how we can't stand people who are like this and that but fail to see that sometimes we're the same way or just as guilty, and because we don't admit it we seem like a hypocrite. someone we'll try to call us out and explain what we're saying or doing and we'll instantly start playing victim. sometimes we'll say something too mean or do something too petty, sometimes we take pride in our attitudes because we see the control we have over the other person, sometimes if things don't go the way we won't we snap back at the other person. sometimes we know what we're doing but sometimes we don't. some people are manipulative and know it, and some people are but don't know it. some people are emotionally abusive without realizing it at all, and some just don't care. why are we so mean? who or what hurt us so much that we feel the need to channel the anger to someone else? why is it so hard to admit that you are the bad guy and that you are in the wrong? the answers are because it's a pride thing and we don't know how to handle the feelings associated with our problems. it's one thing to not want to ruin your pride by saying you were wrong about something as little as a materialistic thing but what about your character? the way people perceive you? who cares about ruining your pride if it's admitting you were a shitty person towards others. we're so mean because we've turned heartless and cold. those who have hurt us, we've taken that pain and shoved it so far down that we want to do what those have done to us. we claim we don't care about anything when we really care a lot. we don't show that we're hurting when we're actually drowning under the weight of our problems. we act like our problems aren't there but the more we suppress them, the more bitter we become because we've never let go and dealt with our issues in a healthy way. the more we press our problems down is just like the more air you blow into a balloon, eventually it's going to burst and pieces are going to go everywhere. when we're hurting another person it's not their problem, it's your's. no matter how much you try to point the blame to them, it's completely irrational because the blame is you. it's like when you don't want to look at yourself in the mirror because you're ashamed of your face. you don't want to admit that the problem is you because you're ashamed of such a thing. you've just created a problem within another problem, it's the domino affect, you knock one down and others are knocked down after. you create one problem and more are created after. pick up one domino and then you can pick up the next. fix one problem and it'll fix the others. evaluate yourself and admit you're the problem. figure out how to pick yourself up and fix the problem. let go of what you're holding in and move on. release the bitterness and become a better person. it's exhausting to hate so love instead, even if there isn't anything to love. you can still focus on yourself and not give a fuck about little things without going after others. just let it go.

It’s proven that writing down your goals will help you to achieve them.

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