#engraudee

“Love him.

Love him not because he tolerates you. Love him not because he gives you gifts and surprises you when it’s your birthday or your anniversary. Love him not because he gives you those damn butterflies in your stomach. Love him not because he gives you time. Love him not because he can offer the world to you. Love him not because he’s there in the good days. Love him not because he tells you you’re beautiful. Love him not because he also loves your hobbies. Love him not because your relationship is smooth-sailing. Love him not because you’re the only girl he sees.

Love him.

Love him because he tells you when you are wrong, he lets you grow and learn from your mistakes without ever having you feel that he’s not on your side. Love him because the greatest gift he could ever give is his commitment and loyalty to you and not everyone gets that kind of gift. Love him because even when the spark is long gone and the butterflies are dead, he still stays. Love him because despite the busy schedule, he still makes time. Love him because he does not promise things he can never give, (I’ll give you the moon and stars, whaaaat?) but he offers you all that he has and all that he can give. Love him because even when days are bad, he’s there to stay, trying to brighten things up. Love him because even in your not so beautiful days; red days, no bath and smug make up, he still finds you beautiful. Love him because tho he finds your favorite movie boring, he still sits there and watch it because he knows how much you like it. Love him because after so many fights and the tantrums you throw, he never gives up. Love him because you’re not the only girl he sees, and in fact, some of them are much more beautiful, but he chooses to value what the both of you have.

Love him for all that he is and he is not. Love him and accept him just as much as he loves and accepts you.

you saw light in me when all i saw was darkness