#electricdoc

My sexuality and gender had nothing to do with it, @sludgebat

I told you “I’m completely pro-equality, but Modern/Third Wave feminism doesn’t hold up to scrutiny in the first world.”

Have I ever said anything that insisted I was sexist in any way, shape, or form? Did I insist that I thought less of you for expressing your faith in feminism?

I really don’t think so. Even though I’m expressly against the label of Femin-Ism, I’m close friends with a few self-defined feminists. And the fact that I can’t criticize your belief system, without universally alienating you, says a lot for your character.

I mean shit, the only thing we disagreed on, until I said “Feminism these days is a bit shady” was your headcanon that Mabel is trans, and that’s purely because I value Canon over Fanon, and thought you might have been going on one of those “My headcanon is better than the real thing!” tirades. My fault, clearly.

Can we act like adults, and get past this minor difference?

who’s the cuddler: Stanley. He's a snuggly bastard, he likes nuzzling people. Olivia cuddles too, but I think Stanley does it more once he gets comfortable with himself.

who makes the bed: Stanley.

who wakes up first: Stanley.

who has the weird taste in music: Olivia, probably. Stanley will listen to pretty much anything, but Olivia I feel would go looking for weird experimental indie bands.

who is more protective: Olivia.

who sings in the shower: Both of them. Also they share showers so shower duets.

who cries during movies: Stanley cries at everything.

who spends the most while out shopping: Probably Olivia, Stanley is kind of thrifty.

who kisses more roughly: Oddly enough, Stanley does. He's just kind of a rough kisser, uses his whole mouth. He can be gentle and soft, but he's just a big dude and he can't really help it.

who is more dominate: Olivia.