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Beyonce, Historic in Vogue!

Do you remember a world before Beyoncé?? I barely do.

The talented singer and dancer as we know her to be, has been in our hearts and on our Playlists since forever! From being a Destiny’s Child teenager to a Coachella mother of three.

I HEART her, too much!

The Queen Bee graces the cover of Vogue Magazine’s September issue this year, while also sharing deeply, the story of her latest pregnancy…

The Insecurities That Make You A Prisoner

A little while back, I got struck and stuck with a gripping and eye-opening thought during a conversation with a friend about the underlying factors that determine our actions, in this particular case, insecurities.

Our conversation danced along the modus operandi of most public office elections in this part of the world, where youths and their energies are mostly used as tools, forgettable…

Why You Keep Making The Wrong Choices In Relationships

Most of us have, at some point, been in love with someone who wasn’t good for us, and to us. Some have been in it once, and learned their lessons, while some are still in it, and can’t understand why they keep choosing the same patterns, the same bad boy or girl, over and over again.

It can be very painful to live like that, but often times, we persist because we don’t see a way out, or don’t…

The Ending Is Everything, Plan All The Way To It.

Sometimes I want to run so far away, desperate for ease, peace, a win.

I run too far, so undeniably careless, that I lose myself, finding it hard to get back to reality.

I want too much. Too much that I fear when given, I won’t handle.

There’s so much to learn, so much we think we know. So little time we leave for understanding.

Wanting, and making sure to get it, is a hard reality of life we…

Supporting The Ambitious Woman In Your Life

Women are very attention seeking, especially when they do not have their hands full with work. But don’t be fooled, that ambitious women would do without it. They also want attention, the attention that support leeches on.

Supporting an ambitious woman will take a lot of patience, considering her personality as well. There would be mood swings, frustration, anger, tears, all in one emotional…

THE HEARTBREAK SERIES Ep. 7

A month and half, since she had last picked up her phone calls to talk to anyone.

Yawning away bad breath and sleep, she stretched and pulled herself off the bed that now had a deep hollow, the exact size of her in it.

Njideka smiled at Shuaib, who smiled back with grey-painted teeth mirroring his thumbs up.

He yelled something in Hausa to her, but she didn’t understand, so she responded with a…

THE HEARTBREAK SERIES Ep. 6

The physiology, biochemistry, and anatomy of heartbreaks – the maniacal musketeers of a pain unwanted;

Njideka knew it, full-blown.

An unconscious tear rolled down her eye.

She had been laying in bed for days, barely in motion.

She had no care for the world. No one she wanted to see.

Her clavicle now had a big hollow.

Her breath, the smell same as a dump.

Her eyes red still, aching.

She stepped…