I’ll try to keep this short and and to the point. (lol, yeah, April fools! Short is never involved when I’m writing)
Okay. So over the brief period of time that I have been here on Tumblr, I have gotten several messages from people ranting at me. Ranting about how they hate the Catholic church, Catholicism in general, how horrible their childhood was, and being forced to go to church. And basically everything that you can think about being awful that has to do with the church. I don’t want to plaster these posts all over my Tumblr, simply because that is not what this blog is about and just because I. do. not. want. to.
So let me make a few things clear.
- When you feel the need to rant about your- rightfully -horrible/bad/negative experience you had within the Catholic church, don’t.
I am not The Catholic Church. I am not the Vatican. I am just a person, just a person. I have a lot of opinions on what and how the Church can do on amending, re-tribute and maybe even heal, but that’s a whole other conversation that is best done in real life, and preferably with a few bottles of good wine. And to that, I am not your therapist. Ranting at me, because I am active within catholic folk magic, will not solve your issues with the church.
- That some people are not comfortable with Catholicism in a folk magic context, is their problem. It’s not mine, nor any other Catholic witch/magician/practitioner’s, problem. I’m just fine living and working within the frame that it provides.
- There is a difference between what is being said and done in church, and by church officials, and what lay-people say and do outside of the church. And Catholic folk magic, can very much be outside of the official learning from the church. Maybe chew on that for a while. Folk magic is of the people, the ordinary folk and has an entire life separate from the clergy.
With that said...
I do understand where it is coming from! Most people in any given witchcraft, pagan, heathen community do come from a Christian- or specific Catholic background, and do go through a long process of rebelling against it. Which is normal.
And then there is a portion of people who’ve had truly horrible, abusive experiences with the clergy and local community. Ranging from rape and molestation, to emotional abuse and so on. And the church needs to do way, way more to rectify this, be more helpful and transparent. And in all fairness, there has only been one message that mentions such abuse.
Still, yelling at me because your parents made you go to church when you were a child, does not solve anything. If anything, it makes you an annoying anon.
What here, in West Europe, is a slight problem is that the folk magic narrative has been ignored for so long, that people forget it is even an option! We have various interesting magical traditions, as Wicca per example. Then mainstream eclectic witchcraft and paganism, and the respective heathen traditions. Which are all great, as I have spend a lot of time involved within various groups. And it is fashion to rant against Christianity as a whole. No matter what anyone says, this is a reality. Which is fine.
But when you go into Catholic folk magic, it seems that it directly triggers this rant-response from other people. And usually it is not directed against you. No, it’s always against ‘The Church’. As if you, a lone practitioner, can change a thousand year institute overnight. Here there is a massive projection going on where all their frustrations and anger are thrown onto you, as if you are responsible for their feelings. And here’s the thing; you are not.
In various cultures around the world, there is a good dose of Catholicism mixed in with local practices and beliefs. Even where saints suddenly get more pagan powers matched to them, or are mixed with local pagan deities. Working within one frame of mind, does not exclude another. If anything pagan and Catholic world-views are perfectly compatible for a magical practice. Though it seems that a lot of modern religious-magical practitioners seem to think it is either one or the other, but certainly not both. And that is a way of thinking that, ultimately, not only limits yourself, but especially your magical practice and magic in itself.
So, dear anon’s who’s rants I refuse to post, think about this. What is it actually you are actually angry about? Me, one individual, or an institute as the RC Church. And if it is the latter, why rant at the first one? Seems more that a tad misplaced, doesn’t it?
For anyone who wants to get into a Catholic folk magic practice; just because you want to work with saints, does not make you Catholic, nor does it endorse the actions of the church neither do you owe anyone a explanation about why you want to work within a certain frame. It just simply means you work within a Catholic folk magic frame.