If the woman who’s stething my heart, or me stething hers, is someone I’m attracted to or desire in any way, I will crave ear-stething over stething, whereas if I don’t have those, then I will prefer stething over ear-stething. The problem is that I will become attracted and develop desire by the fact that she is stething me, or me stething her, and therefore will crave ear-stething. There’s more emotion behind ear-stething, and more feeling and closeness and comfort and warmth and connection and pleasure and so on. If I don’t know the person, or not quite comfortable, then stething seems preferable, as stething keeps a distance, and is an indirect connection with the heart, whereas ear-stething takes away all distance, and is a direct connection with the heart. This all sounds true to me as I write it, but may not be true in actuality. I guess I’ll have to remember this the next time I’m in a stething situation, so as to see if it holds any weight. Well, this has been my Monday morning rambling. Cheers….