#dustie

Chroma and Bond´s Poster

a comic about a journey of teenagers that are trying to change the entire planet and save their people from the darknesss

introductions: https://youtu.be/KZgBoYdVk3g and https://youtu.be/Lm1hyH02OTE 

created by @healedcrystal​

I’m so sorry that you are placed in that ultimatum. My ex was okay with it, and it was still a big struggle. It might be a good idea to see about working with a marriage counselor; who can maybe act as a mediator between, both you and your wife’s, ideas, dreams, and consequences. I really don’t think advice outside of seeking professional help is a good idea in this situation especially if your marriage is something that you both hope to keep intact.

Considering it was extremely something that was hush, hush and was kept in the closets in families, and still is. This may be really, really hard to information to uncover. First thing I’d see about is look for names, and then if anyone had been committed to asylum’s/ sanitariums in the past. Since it was considered a thing you’d be incarcerated for that might be your first clue to finding something.

-Dustie-

I found out that two of my relatives were gay and one was trans in the 20s and 40s because the gay one was disowned and the trans one was sadly murdered, however they used derogatory terms for transpeople when talking about her. Look at the death records of your family, who was committed to asylums, look if someone was disowned,  look for legal papers, letters if you can find, and maybe older relatives can tell you stuff. I learned about the gay one from my great aunt.  

Well if he’s cool, and chill. It might just save you some time, energy, and pain if you just flat out ask him about it. I mean, he’s either going to answer or blow it off. Life is short, don’t get hung up on someone.  A simple clarification question might just be what’s needed, just don’t come at it accusatory.

Let him phrase it, and ask questions. Perhaps start it with “Hey, I remember a post you made a few months ago about there only being two genders. I’m curious, if you might be able to help me understand what you mean?”

Something, along those lines. Try to keep it open.  By ghosting, you’ll just continue questioning “what if”, or worse. Put it to rest, and ask. As always, make sure you’re in a safe place for any sort of conversation that you believe could get heated.