Hey, I want to know, if hypothetically the married girls used birth control like Michelle did before #1 and had him/her the same time after marriage as she did, would Jill have a baby already and Jessa would be expecting or did I calculate it wrong (I was always bad at maths so don't mind me:D) What about Joy/Jinger?
What If:Â Every Duggar Waited As Long As J.B. + Michelle to Have Their First Child?
Jim Bob + Michelle married on July 21, 1984, and had Josh on March 3, 1988. Thatâs a 1,321âDay Delay to Child 1. If every Duggar Couple took an identical amount of time to produce Child 1, only Josh, Jill, and Jessa would be parents, as of July 2018. Hereâs when each coupleâs Firstborn wouldâve arrivedâ
Mackynzie  May 9, 2012  (IRLâOctober 8, 2009)
Israel  February 1, 2018  (IRLâApril 6, 2015)
Spurgeon  June 14, 2018  (IRLâNovember 5, 2015)
⌠and hereâs when the other Firstborns would be expectedâ Â
Gideon  January 6, 2021  (IRLâFebruary 23, 2018)
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AtâAâGlance:Â Who Was In Each Duggar and Bates Bridal Party?
Letâs talk Duggar and Bates bridal parties! For this Post, âbridal partyâ is defined to include the Best Man, the Maid (and/or Matron) of Honor (MOH), groomsmen (GMs), bridesmaids (BMs), flower girls, and ring bearer. Ushers donât count, nor do the coupleâs parentsâunless theyâre also BMs or GMs. When counting BMs and GMs, the MOH is a bridesmaid, and the Best Man is a groomsman.
After the jump!
FYIâStay tuned for a followâup to this Post, calculating the typical bridal party size (for Duggars or Bateses), and a bunch of other analysis! (At the request of several Anons... Sorry itâs taken so long! Had to do research.)
Duggar Bridal PartiesâJoe (2017) to Josh (2008)
Joe + Kendra  |  September 8, 2017
Kendraâs MOH was her younger sister, Lauren Caldwell, while Joeâs Best Man was his younger brother, Josiah Duggar. Kendraâs 11 Bridesmaids includedâ
Kendraâs little sister, Olivia Caldwell, served as the Flower Girl, and her younger brothers, Nathan and Timothy Caldwell, served as the 2 Ring Bearers. All told, Joe + Kendraâs wedding featured a Bridal Party of 26.
JoyâAnna + Austin  |  May 26, 2017
Joy's MOH was her longâtime sister mom, Jill Duggar. Austinâs Best Man was his brotherâinâlaw, Bobby Ballinger, Jr.  Joyâs 12 Bridesmaids includedâ
6 Sisters  Jana, Jill,* Jessa, Jinger, Johannah, and Jennifer
2 SILs  Anna Duggar, Meagan (Forsyth) Ballinger
1 Future SILÂ Â Kendra CaldwellÂ
2 Friends  Carlin Bates, Sierra Jo Dominguez, Heidi Query
Meanwhile, with yâallâs help, hereâs a list of Austinâs 12 Groomsmenâ
His Grandfather  Edwin Forsyth
3 BILs  J.D. Duggar, Bobby Ballinger, Jr. (Sister Meaganâs Husband),* Nick Tunstill (HalfâSister Rachaelâs Husband)Â
7 Friends  Nate Paine (Chadâs Brother), Aaron Patton, Andrew Patton, Peter Query, Logan Smith, Josiah Stangl, Jacob Wilson Â
+ 1 Unknown
The Forsythsâ Flower Girl was Austinâs niece, Allove Tunstill. From the photo above, the younger boy in the dark suit looks like heâs a Ring Bearerâbut Iâm not sure, and I donât know who he is, or how heâs related to the couple. (Sorry!)  Anyway, when allâs said and done, the Forsyths had a Bridal Party of 25.
Jinger + Jeremy  |  November 5, 2016
Unsurprisingly, Jinger's MOH was her sister, Jessa. Meanwhile, Jeremyâs Best Man was his brother, Charles Vuolo. Jinger had 10 Bridesmaids, includingâ
5 Sisters  Jana, Jill, Jessa,* Joy, Johannah
2 SILs  Anna Duggar, Valerie Vuolo
3 Friends  Jennifer Hartono, Kenzie Peters, Rebekah Kelly
Sadly, Duggar Data has no idea who any of Jeremyâs 10 Groomsmen are, with the exception ofâ
His Brother  Charles Vuolo
1 BILÂ Â John David Duggar
1 SILâs Spouse  Ben Seewald
2 Friends  James Song, Josue Soto
+ 5 Unknown Â
Miracle Child Josie Duggar was the Vuolosâ Flower Girl, while the Ring Bearer was Jingerâs nephew, Josh + Annaâs son, Michael J. Duggar. Ultimately, Jinger + Jeremy had a Bridal Party of 22.
Jessa + Benjamin  |  November 1, 2014
Jessaâs sister, Jinger, served as her MOH. Benâs good friend, Dylan McMahan, served as his Best Man. Jessa had 11 Bridesmaids, includingâ
4 Sisters  Jana, Jill, Jinger,* JoyâAnna
3 SILs  Jessica Seewald, Danielle Seewald, Michelle Seewald
4 Friends  Jennifer Hartono, Amara Query, Anna Hackel, Peyton Weiss
So far, Jessa + Ben are the only Duggar or Bates pair to have unequal numbers or BMs and GMs. Ben had 10 Groomsmen, includingâ
His Brother  Ethan Seewald
His Cousin  Russ Seewald
2 BILs  Josiah Duggar, Joseph Duggar
6 Friends  Dylan McMahan,* Dan Robinson, Jake Hendrix, Kolton Kulis, Rob Flowers, Ryan Schofield
Jessa + Ben had 2 Flower GirlsâJordyn Duggar, Jessaâs little sister, and Faith Seewald, Benâs little sister. Benâs little brother, Thomas Seewald, was the Ring Bearer. In the end, the Seewalds had a Bridal Party of 24.
Jill + Derick  |  June 21, 2014
Jillâs MOH was her eldest sister, Jana. Derickâs Best Man was his younger (and only) brother, Daniel Dillard. Jillâs 6 Bridesmaids includedâ
5 Sisters  Jana,* Jill, Jinger, JoyâAnna, and Johannah
1 SILÂ Â Anna Duggar
... while Dericks 6 Groomsmen includedâ
His Brother  Daniel Dillard*
His Cousin  Tony Dillard Â
2 BILs  J.D. Duggar, Joseph Duggar
2 Friends  Stephen Jones, Madison McCalmon
Perhaps making up for a lack of BMs and GMs, the Dillards had 4 Flower GirlsâJillâs sisters, Jenni, Jordyn, and Josie; and her niece, Josh + Annaâs daughter, Mackynzie. Finally, they had 2 Ring BearersâJillâs youngest brother, Jackson; and Jillâs nephew, Josh + Annaâs first son, Michael. Ultimately, Jill + Derick had a Bridal Party of 18.
Joshua + Anna  |  September 26, 2008
Duggar Data is 95% Sure that Annaâs MOH was her sister, Priscilla Keller. As for the Best Man... Based on the photo, I think it was J.D. (He is directly next to Josh, despite being shorter than the next GM in line.) Hereâs a list of Annaâs 10 Bridesmaidsâ
4 Sisters  Esther, Rebekah, Priscilla,* Susanna
5 SILs  Jana, Jill, Jessa, Jinger, JoyâAnna
+ 1 Unknown
... and Joshâs 10 Groomsmenâ
7 Brothers  J.D.,* Joseph, Josiah, Jed, Jer, Jason, James
1 BIL  Joshua MacDonald Â
+ 2 Unknown
Per Josh (at ~5:55), his youngest brothers, Justin and Jackson, were the 2 Ring Bearers, and his thenâyoungest sisters, Johanna and Jennifer, served as their 2 Flower Girls.  Overall, it was a Bridal Party of 24.
Bates Bridal PartiesâTori (2017) to Erin (2013)
Tori + Bobby  |  December 16, 2017
When Tori married Bobby, 2 MOHs stood by her sideâCarlin Bates (Maid) and Erin (Bates) Paine (Matron). As for Bobby, he chose just 1 Best Manâhis best friend, Kelton Balka, who also happens to be Josieâs boyfriend. Tori had a total of 10 Bridesmaids, includingâ
6 Sisters  Erin,* Michaela, Alyssa, Carlin,* Josie, Katie
2 SILs  Whitney (Perkins) Bates, Katherine Smith (Bobbyâs Sister?)
2 Friends  Devonna Killin, Abby Paine (Chad Paineâs Sister)
...and Bobby had 10 Groomsmen, namelyâ
4 BILs  Zach, Lawson, Nathan, and Trace Bates
1 SILâs Spouse  Chad PaineÂ
5 Friends  Kelton Balka (Josieâs BF),* Evan Stewart (Carlinâs BF), Dillon Richards, Johnathan Rasmussen, Samuel Fuller  Â
The Smithsâ also had 3 Flower GirlsâToriâs sister Callie; Toriâs cousin, Charlotte Bates; and Grace Renner, who Duggar Data doesnât recognize. The Smiths had 3 Ring BearersâJudson and Jeb Bates, plus a little boy Iâve not seen before, Cole Renner. All in all, the Smithsâ had a Bridal Party of 26.
Michaela + Brandon  |  August 15, 2015
At Michaelaâs request, her mother (Kelly Jo Bates) served as her MOH. As for Brandon, I wasnât able to identify his Best Man. Michaelaâs 8 Bridesmaids, all family members except one, includedâ
Her Mother  Kelly Jo Bates*
3 Sisters  Erin Paine (Not MOH, Despite Tan Dress), Alyssa Webster, Tori Bates
3 SILs  Angie Keilen, Becky Keilen, Christy Keilen
1 Friend  Jana Duggar (!)
... meanwhile, Brandons 8 Groomsmen includedâ
2 Brothers  Brent and Craig Keilen
2 BILs  Lawson Bates, Trace Bates
4 Friends  Andy Warner, Gabe Cleator, Kelly Dornik, Nate Paine (Chad Paineâs Brother)
Also, they had 3 Flower GirlsâAddallee, Ellie, and Callie Batesâeach of whom is Michaelaâs younger sister. Finally, Michaelaâs little brother, Judson Bates, was the Ring Bearer. Overall, the Keilens had a Bridal Party of 20.
Alyssa + John  |  May 24, 2014
Breaking with tradition, Alyssa didnât choose a sister as her MOHâinstead, she chose her sisterâinâlaw, Tori Webster. (Confusing! Two Toris!) Brandon wasnât so rebellious; his Best Man was his brother, Jordan Webster.
Alyssa had 8 Bridesmaids, consisting ofâ
3 Sisters  Michaela Bates (Keilen), Erin Paine, Tori Bates (Smith)Â
3 SILs  Whitney Bates, Tori Webster,* Elizabeth Miller (Johnâs Sister)
2 Friends  Andrea Warren, Bethany Chavez
... while John had 8 Groomsmen, namelyâ
3 Brothers  Jordan,* Brent, and David Webster
2 BILs  Nathan Bates, Joe Miller
1 Cousin (?)  Jonathan Webster (Not A Sibling; Cousin is A Guess)
2 Friends  Lewis Albright, Luke Brigham
Alyssaâs little sisters, Addie and Ellie Bates, were the 2 Flower Girls, while her little brother, Judson Bates, was the Ring Bearer. All told, the Websters had a Bridal Party of 19.  Â
Zach + Whitney (Perkins) Bates  |  December 14, 2013
Whitney stood at the altar with her cousin (?), Makayla Ray, as her MOH. For his Best Man, Zach chose his friend, Andy Leftwich. (Interesting he didnât go with a sibling!) Whitneyâs 6 Bridesmaids includedâ
1 Sister  Nakota Owens
3 SILs  Alyssa Bates (Webster), Josie Bates, Katie Bates
1 Cousin (?)Â Â Makayla Ray*
1 Friend  Carrie Blackwell
... while Zachâs 6 Groomsmen includedâ
4 Brothers  Lawson, Warden, Isaiah, Jackson
2 Friends  Andy Leftwich,* John David Duggar
The BatesâPerkins's 3 Flower Girls included Whitneyâs adoptive sistersâElla, Sadie, and Bella Owens. Finally, Whitneyâs brotherâPhillip Owensâwas Zach + Whitâs Ring Bearer. Overall, they had a Bridal Party of 16.
Erin + Chad Paine  |  November 2, 2013
For her MOH, Erin picked her sister, Tori Bates. For his Best Man, Chad chose his friend, Jordan Websterâwho is now Alyssa (Bates) Websterâs BIL. Erinâs 5 Bridesmaids includedâ
3 Sisters  Alyssa, Tori,* Carlin
1 SILÂ Â Abby Paine
1 Friend  Becky Keilen (Michaelaâs Future SIL) Â
... and Chadâs 5 Groomsmen includedâ
3 Brothers  Thomas, Nate, and Joey Paine Â
1 BILÂ Â Zach Bates
1 Friend  Jordan Webster* (Alyssaâs Future BIL)
The Flower Girl was Erinâs sister, CallieâAnna Bates, and the Ring Bearer was Chadâs brother, Johnny Paine. Overall, the Paines had a Bridal Party of 12.
Wow, that was long! Iâll be following this Post up with an analysis of the typical number of Bridesmaids, Groomsmen, etc., so stay tuned for that!
Keeping Up w/ Sue RadfordâBritainâs MegaâMatriarch
How does Britainâs Largest Family compare to the Duggar or Bates Clans? Find out, after the jump...
Meet The Radfords
The Radfords, of Morecambre, Lancashire, England, are Britainâs largest family. Noel + Suzanne âSueâ Radford were childhood sweetheartsâkey word, âchild.â When Sue got pregnant at Age 13, she and Noelâwho were both given up for adoption, as infantsâdecided to raise the child. Radford #1, Christopher, was born shortly after Sueâs 14th Birthday. Surprisingly, things worked out. Noel + Sue stayed together, raising Chris and preventing Baby #2, until their marriage ~4 Years Later, on September 26, 1992.
Little Radfords arrived in quick succession, after that. Within 15 Months, Noel + Sueâs longâawaited Baby #2 (Sophie) was born. Before long, the Radfords had #3, then #4, then #5âultimately, settling into an average pace of 1 Child Every 507 Days (16.66 Months). While Sue was pregnant with Baby #9 (Josh), Noel actually got a vasectomy. (Not sure if itâs relevant, but Joshuaâs spacing is one of closest of all the Radfords, at 323 Days.) He quickly got it reversed, though, as âthe couple longed for more children.â So, more children they had: Eleven more, in fact, for a total of twenty, one of whom was still born (#17, Alfie).
After Baby #20 (Archie)âs birth <9 Months ago (in September 2017), Noel + Sue said their megaâfamily was finally complete. âWeâre happy to be finishing on a nice even number,â Sue said. Nevertheless... On May 28, 2018, the Radfordsâ Instagram featured an exciting announcementâBaby #21 is on the way! Itâs a girl, due in November 2018. (Tori Smithâs baby is also due that month!)
Note that the Radfords arenât quiverfull (QF)âand, donât even seen particularly religious. They also donât homeschool, ascribed to a sexist modesty standard, or practice chaperoned courtship. They do, however, star in a reality television show in Britain, which is why theyâre fair game to discuss on Duggar Data.
Speaking of data, letâs look at some...
Keeping Up w/ The Radfords
Hereâs a chart, summarizing the Radford familyâs growthâ
NoteâGreen indicates the two shortest spacings, while red indicates the two longest. Chris (#1)âs data is omitted, since the Radfords prevented pregnancy for several years, after his birth. Also, Alfie (#17)âs data is omittedâconsistent with Duggar Dataâs policy of omitting data from stillbirths or miscarriages, due to data integrity and uniformity concerns. Â
Average + S.D.
Doing the math, Sueâs average child spacing is 507 Days, but this varies by a standard deviation (S.D.) of 157 Days. (So... Sheâs not very consistent!) Thus, if we assume a normal distribution (bell curve), thereâs a 68% Chance that Sue will have an interâbirth interval of 350â664 Days, and a 95% Chance that itâll be between 193â821 Days.
Checking against Sueâs actual data, thereâs only one outlierâi.e., one birth that is outside the 95% Range, for spacingâand thatâs Radford #18 (Hallie). Sheâs immediately after Alfie (#17), who was stillborn, howeverâso, a larger gap was to be expected.  Â
Median + M.A.D.
Now, instead of using Average + S.D., letâs use Median + M.A.D. Theyâre more resistant to outliers, among other things. Doing the math again, Sueâs median child spacing is 475 Days. (Look! Thatâs the current, overall Duggar Average, too!) Sueâs spacing varies by a normalized median absolute deviation (M.A.D.) of 145 Days. Thus, the Median + M.A.D. system say there are 68% Odds that Sueâll give birth 330â620 Days apart, and 95% Odds that sheâll give birth 185â765 Days apart.
Again, Hallie (#17) is the only outlier.
How Many Children Will The Radfords Have ?
Well, we donât have any basis to guess at her fertility, so itâs hard to say. Right now, Sue Radford (b. 3â22â75) is 43.19 Years old. Just for fun, letâs say Sue is as fertile as Michelle Duggar. Michelle had her last child (Josie) at Age 43.24âso, actually, Sue is fertiler than that. Radford #21 is due in Novemberâand, by then, Sueâll be ~Age 43.65. Okay... So what about Kelly Bates? Kelly had her last child (Jeb) at Age 45.27. If Sue is exactly as fertile, sheâll have ~591 Fertile Days left, after Radford #21â˛s arrive. (Iâm assuming a November 15 D.O.B., as her precise due date isnât known yet.) At Sueâs typical paceâMean or Medianâthatâs long enough for only one more pregnancy. So... The Radfords might end up with 22 Total (21 Living) Children, in the end.
Sue Radford vs. Michelle vs. Kelly Jo
Curious how Sueâs fertility, spacing, etc. compares to Michelle Duggar and Kelly Jo Bates? Hereâs a chartâ
NoteâData from Duggar Wedding to Josh Duggar and Chris to Sophie Radford is omitted, due to their parentsâ intentional pregnancy prevention. Also, Jubilee Duggar and Alfie Radfordâs data was omitted, due to stillbirth. Finally, for twins, the second twin (J.D., Jer) wasnât given a 0 Day spacingârather, both twins are counted together, since itâs a single birth.Â
So, there you have it! All you ever wanted to know about the Suzanne Radford, the megaâmatriarch from across the pond. Hope yâall enjoyed! Â
What is the current average age for Duggar and/or Bateseseseses kids getting married? I guess I'm interested about it all - guys and gals separate, and what the situation is separately in both families.
Sorry it took me so long to get to this! Good Ask. Letâs take a lookâŚ
âMarital Ageâ for The Duggars
Overall, the Average Duggar is married at Age 22.03; however, this varies by a Standard Deviation (SD) of 2.79 Years. (Just to be clear, this is including BornâIn and InâLaws of both sexes.) Assuming a normal curve, there are 68% Odds that a Duggar will marry within Âą1 SD of Averageâi.e., Age 19.24â24.81âand 95% Odds that a Duggar will wed within Âą2 SDs of Averageâi.e., by Age 27.6.
Malesâ
Given the strict gender roles in the Duggarsâ and Batesesâ âculture,â letâs break this down by sexâŚÂ The Average Duggar Male (BornâIn or InâLaw) marries at Age 23.20. This varies by a SD of 3.24 Years. Therefore, it is likely (68%) that a Duggar Son or SonâInâLaw will be Age 19.95â26.44 when he marries. Thus far, the Youngest Duggar Groom is Ben (Age 19.46), while the Oldest Duggar Groom is Jeremy (Age 28.89). Â
How do the Duggar Sons compare to the Duggar SonâInâLaws? Letâs check it out! An Average Duggar Son marries at Age 21.68 (SD 1.04 Years), while the Average Duggar SonâInâLaw marries at Age 24.34 (SD 4.04 Years). Running those numbers, Duggar Sons typically (68%) marry between Age 20.64â22.72, and Duggar SonâInâLaws typically marry in the much wider range of Age 20.30â28.32.
Femalesâ
Now, for the ladiesâŚÂ An Average Duggar Female (BornâIn or InâLaw) marries at Age 20.86. With a SD is 1.76 Years, Duggar Bridesâ ages vary a lot less than Duggar Groomsâ ages. (Remember, the SD for Grooms was 3.24 Years.) Within the Duggar Clan, a woman is highly likely (68%) to marry between Age 19.10â22.61. So far, the Kendra was the Youngest Duggar Bride, at Age 19.08, while Jill was the Oldest Duggar Bride, at Age 23.10. (But if John + Abbie marry, Jill will be demoted to runnerâup!)
How do the InâLaws compare to the BornâIns? Theyâre younger. The Average Duggar Daughter marries at Age 21.88 (SD 1.16 Years), which corresponds to a likely (68%) marital age range of Age 20.27â23.50. Meanwhile, the Average Duggar DaughterâInâLaw weds at Age 19.49 (SD 0.67 Years). Thus, Duggar Sons are likely (68%) to marry women whoâre Age 18.81â20.16. Thatâs a very narrow range!
Onward! Letâs talk aboutâŚ
âMarital Ageâ for The Bateses
Overall, including BornâIns and InâLaws, Males and Females, a 100% Average Bates marries at Age 23.46. (Versus Age 22.03 for the Duggars.) Marital ages, for the Bateses, vary by a SD of 2.42 Years. (As such, theyâre about 13% more consistent than the Duggars, who have an SD of 2.79 Years.) Assuming a bellâcurved data set, most (68%) of Bateses are due to marry between Age 21.04â25.87, and practically all (95%) are due to marry between Age 18.62â28.29.
Malesâ
Letâs break this down by sex. An Average Bates Males (BornâIn or InâLaw) is Age 24.95 at marriage; however, this varies by a SD of 1.43 Years. (Versus the Average Duggar Male at Age 23.20, with a 3.24 Year SD.) Thus, itâs probable a Bates Male will marry between Age 23.52â26.38. So far, the Youngest Bates Groom is Bobby at Age 22.83 (versus Benâs Age 19.46), and the Oldest Bates Groom is Chad at Age 26.54 (versus Jeremyâs Age 28.89).Â
(We wonât separate BornâIn and InâLaw for the Bateses, since thereâs only one DaughterâInâLaw, so far.)
Femaleâ
FinallyâŚÂ An Average Bates Female (BornâIn or InâLaw) marries at Age 21.96. (Compare that to the Average Duggar Female, who weds at Age 20.86.) But, it varies by a SD of 2.35 Years. (Versus 1.76 Years for the Duggars.) So, itâs very likely (68%) that a Bates Female will marry between Age 19.61â24.31. So far, the Youngest Bates Bride is Alyssa at Age 19.54 (versus Kendraâs Age 19.08), and the Oldest Bates Bride is Michaela at Age 25.22 (versus Jillâs Age 23.10).Â
I'm sure you've spotted it, but the Dillard's post to JD and Abbie had a photo of them labelled 'May 2018', so I'm guessing that's when they started courting :)
Estimated Courtship Date for John + Abbie!
[Link to the Dillardsâ Post, âCongratulations John + Abbie!â]
Oh my God, youâre right! Also, no, I hadnât noticed this yet! (Not sure if others have and Iâm just late to the party?) Anyway, all credit to Anon! Very good eye! Based on this, I will use May 16, 2018 as John + Abbieâs courtship date, unless we get better evidence of a different date! (May 16 is the exact middle of May.)
Also, I know yâall are waiting for my data and predictions on the courtship... Itâs in the works, now that itâs the weekend! Thank you for your patience.
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Fun Fact: The Predictor is actually set up to deal with a Duggar + Bates couple, if it happens. (Itâll assume, e.g., that, if a Bates Daughter is a Duggar DaughterâInâLaw, sheâll be fertile to Age 45.25, not Age 40.0.) So, yeah... Bring it on!
On Duggar Data, we usually analyze Duggars and Bateses separately. Duggarsâ data is kept with Duggarsâ, Batesesâ with Batesesâ. So, each family has its own typical spousal age gapâ
Typical Duggar Age Gap  Male +2.34 Years  |  Female â2.34 Years Â
Typical Bates Age Gap  Male  +3.09 Years  |  Female  â3.09 Years  Â
Immediately, you might see the issue for this Ask. Thereâs no way that a Duggar + Bates pair could be typical, per both familiesâ data. But, we can fix this! Letâs do what we rarely do, and find a Duggar / Bates Combined Average. Taking the mean (average) of all Duggar and Bates Couplesâ age gaps, we getâ
Duggar / Bates Combined Typical Age Gap
Males  +2.72 Years (2.72 Years Older)
Females  â2.72 Years (2.72 Years Younger)
Answering this Ask comes down to which Duggar + Bates, Male + Female pairâsorry, heteronormativity is theirs, not mine!âhas an age difference closest to this. And, letâs only look at currentlyâsingle Duggars and Bateses...
After doing the math, the best match is Jenni Duggar + Isaiah Batesâtheyâre 2.79 Years apart, with Isaiah being older. (You were right, Anon!) As of May 29, 2018, Jenniâs 10.8 Years old, and Isaiahâs 13.6 Years old. Hereâs the Top 3 Best Matches, all with age gaps favoring the manâ
Jennifer + Isaiah  2.79 Years (Typical + 0.07 Years)
Jackson D. + Ellie  2.93 Years (Typical + 0.23 Years)
Johanna + Warden  2.40 Years (Typical â 0.32 Years)
Hi! I noticed that for a lot of data, it says Jinger and Jeremy began dating in May, when Jeremy confirmed on their website that they actually started courting in December of 2015!
Data Dispute! Anon, youâre halfâright. Iâll give you that. Jinger + Jeremyâs site saysâ
Obviously, itâs a significant date. However, the C.S. Start Date my spreadsheets use (May 21, 2016) comes straight from the Vuolos. At Jingerâs bridal shower, a cutesy sign listed dates for the Vuolos relationship milestones, including âBegan Courtingâ on May 21, 2016â (GIF credit to Annie of @keepingupwithfundies.)
Youâre 100% right about the website thing, though! I actually use December 11, 2015 as their âpreâcourtshipâ date, based entirely on the website entry.
Honestly, without the sign, we probably never wouldâve known when the Vuolos began courting. Thereâs scant other evidence! So, your incredulity is justified!