i super duper loved your promare fics! that being said, i was only marginally interested in the untamed until you mentioned watching it, so now i'm super interested. what's your favorite aspect of the story?
oh man okay let me put the kettle on, this is a two mugs of tea kind of ask
first of all, thank you! Iām so glad you liked the promare fics (and I have two more long things for that fandom that will go up Eventually, so if you like longfic, thereās that). that movie unblocked something creatively that had been stuck for like a year and Iām very grateful to it
that said the untamed is fucking nothing like promare.Ā I love them both but oh goddamn they do not belong in theĀ āBecause You Liked Thisā box for each other and it would be an act of criminal negligence not to say so. just. just be ready for that.Ā
so. what is my favorite aspect of The Untamed? well, in a way, the answer is the whole thing, because... thereās some big thematic stuff going on here and Iām into it.
Itās about learning to live with your mistakes. Itās about wei wuxian, who, with the best of intentions in the world, fucked up about as badly as it is possible for a person to do, and then, sixteen years later, came back to life and had to figure out how to live with the consequences after all. itās about the people who spent those sixteen years with wei-wuxian-shaped aching empty gaps in their lives, and what they do when he comes back.
itās about how sometimes there are no right answers, the best you can do is try to find the least-wrong one, and that means everyoneās going to have to learn to live with their ghosts.
itās about love in all its forms, and the painful truth that love alone is not always enough, even when everyone involved really does love each other so much.Ā But not in a way where it ever acts like love doesnāt matter? Itās about how love needs to be acted upon, and, more than that, in what way you act on it, and whether that saves you or destroys you.
itās about how itās a very, very bad idea to jump in front of swords for people who bleed when youāre cut, no matter how little you want to see them hurt.
itās about family, and how badly your parents can fuck you up. How lastingly. How poisonous that legacy can be.
Itās about trying to do better by the next generation. Itās about trying to raise them and give them a world where they donāt fuck up quite as badly as you, where the consequences arenāt so brutal, where itās a little bit easier for them to love.Ā
itās about how kindness always counts for something.Ā
it is, in fact, about living with your ghosts. itās about accepting that you did the best you could, and letting the regret go. about how maybe thatās the closest toĀ āno regretsā you can get.Ā
itās about a lot of things.
when we watched the last episode, my wife and I just lay on each other and happy-cried until netflix started autoplaying trailers.Ā
(it also has. SO many warnings. death, violence, abusive families, offscreen sexual abuse (but never onscreen, so thatās nice) [EDIT: I lied, itās onscreen once, itās mostly people moving around behind translucent curtains but NOT ENTIRELY SO], more violence, more death, suicide, desecration of the dead, children in peril, children dying, torture, inventive violence, mind control, psychological manipulation, really majorly brutal on the abusive families, grief, a makeup department truly having way too much fun with the body horror at a couple of points...)Ā