a temporary family
how could i be closer to someone iāve known for 10 days than people iāve known for years? Itās funny how for a couple weeks, they were my whole entire life and then I knew Iād never see them again. Summer camps have that distinct ability to create strong, intense friendships without hesitations in a way thatās different than at school or back home. I think itās the fact that the friendship is on a timeline that changes things. Knowing that if you desired, youād never have to see them again - all the embarrassing moments forgotten.
Last summer, I stayed in Spain for 2 weeks to attend and volunteer at an English immersion program and by the end - the teens there were like my family. It was me and about 79 other teenagers, approximately 40 of them from Ireland, Scotland, America and many other native English speaking countries and the remaining half from Spain. We spent two weeks together; a couple days exploring the capital of Madrid with all the other āanglosā and then settling down in a quaint resort in the beautiful Salamanca. Days were filled with community building activities, traditional Spanish foods and cultures as well as incorporating more āwesternā elements and of course one-to-ones. At the end of my two weeks there, I knew the name and location of all 79 other campers and had built friendships nothing like that of mine back home. Even with the Spanish kids who spoke little English, a connection was created. We broke the language barrier with charades, google translate and my desperate pleas to āhabla inglesā. I didnāt speak Spanish back then - I barely know Spanish now, but āno entiendoā and āpodo ir al banoā was all I truly needed. The short 12 day timer on us created an impulse to jump right in; to actually be yourself and let it show.
I love camp. Before last summer, I had never been to a ārealā overnight camp; my only experiences being from overnight leadership trips with my school, a multitude of day camps, family vacations and trips to my friendsā cottages. Itās the whole living with strangers concept that fascinates me - within days, youāll discover quirks that would take months to uncover back home. They truly become your family. Especially where no one knows me, I can do whatever I desire and not worry about it following me home to my reality. Camp is a safe haven - a place to run away from problems, life and start something new. Itās a break, creating distance, a change of pace.









