#disordered paraphile

I'm Otto (it/its), I'm a disordered paraphile and COCSA survivor (i also have some non disordered paraphilias), and I'm making this blocklist to let other paraphiles know what blogs aren't safe for them.

I do not like people! I make no friends, I bite and I am happy this way! (But I also like being nice and playing toys)

Respect your own dni

I have another blog, which i recently deleted because it got no attention so whatever

Anons may go on and off for safety, as I heard what happened to the last anti-para-blocklist account (if you see this, I hope you are doing so so well and that things have gotten so much better)

I'm pro-para, anti abuse - bodily minors, theriform animals, and the dead (after death really) cannot provide informed consent, if you have contact with a being where they cannot provide informed consent, get off my blog

Xenosatanists will be blocked on sight, I'm anti radqueer due to bad experiences but anti-contact rqs are okay to interact

Rules for asks: Give the blog name Give evidence (media and/or links) Stay on the topic of adding to the blocklist unless I reblog like an ask game or if you have questions or smth

Tags #blocklist - people to block #apb archive - archiving anti-para-blocklist

Other paraphilia blogs @thisis-paraphilicsocialostracism, @thisisparamisia, @paraphiliaresearcharchive, @this-is-paraphilic-joy

flash warning! Blinkies under cut!!!

people can understand that having any other disorder does NOT make you a bad person by default, but when it comes to paraphilic disorders? people short-circuit. suddenly you’re every terrible name in the book, and you’ve somehow committed a crime by simply existing.

but having a paraphilic disorder does not automatically make someone an abuser or sexual offender. most offenders are actually not paraphilic at all. not that anyone would know that, bc there’s so much misinfo. but assuming so is like believing in narcissistic abuse. it’s not true—it’s just used as a demonizing tool. people use it to make life harder for those w NPD. and it is fucking WRONG.

most, if not all disordered paraphiles DO NOT want to feel their attraction. people can develop paraphilic disorders due to csa, or genetics, which are not things you have any control over. our only responsibility is doing our best to recover, and educate others so we can have the best support system possible. that is crucial for recovery, by the way.

so please, please stop spreading false information about paraphilic disorders, especially if you do not suffer from one. i’m tired of people voicing their ‘opinions’ about these seriously complex disorders.

happy disability pride to all disordered paraphiles being who they are

TSUGINO / INU

18 !! Bodily a CHRONOADULT !! 16 and under, please don’t DM me! You will be blocked! If you need something, send an ask and tell me whether you want it posted or not!

Unlabeled Masc-Aligned ^^ !! I don’t really care about labels and stuff anymore!! I’m just queer, that’s all! + He/Him prns

Aromantic (Amormaniac) + Acespike ! I also tend to be BPD4NPD !! My favorite thing to consider with a lover is whether we’re Victim/Perpetrator strictly or sometimes, if it switches around (reactive abuse) !!

IRL yan ^—^ I just consider myself one because the community is nice and everyone thinks similarly to me! So, it’s less of a personal label and more social!

DID SYS (I am a co-host) !! Polyfragmented n stuff !!

Yes, I still experience Zeno outbursts and sudden onsets. It’s a little more internalized now, but you can sometimes tell when they happen. I might posts a lot of spam in those states… sorry <P