honestly so tired of the weirdly common belief online that everyone needs to have perfectly correct opinions about anything and everything and that if you don't then you're horrible. it triggers my moral ocd so bad. i'm not talking about much more important things (lgbtqia+ validity, human rights, etc.), instead things that aren't that fucking big of an issue. its making me scared to even state my opinions on some discourse topics because i don't want people to see me as some terrible being. all i normally say to more minor discourse is "if i am not directly affected, then i won't say anything conclusive/i won't pick a side" which?? should be a more common thing honestly??? like all i want to do is mind my business please and thanks. if people want to block me for that then go ahead. just tired of the harassment i've seen and the anxiety i've been getting
