Advice to new systems

Things you regret as a system-

Advice for systems

Keep in mind that things take time and that your system isn't going to be like anybody else's, it was geared to protect you.

Disabilities

We have a physical disability, which we'd rather not discuss. Two of our alters are missing eyes in the innerworld and can't see out of them when fronting.

Relationships

The only people with individual relationships with us are our roommates, who know about our condition, and sort of our therapist? We have one romantic relationship between two systemmates who I kind of expect to fuse. Some of us have sibling relationships, mainly the twins. No one is really a father or mother stand in.

Clothes?

We have preferences out of our clothes, but none of us have full on outfits that the host wouldn't wear or that most of us wouldn't wear. The only one close is Liam, our host, with his dragon shirt. It's ugly.

Gender

Comfort items and Comfort animals

Jobs in the Innerworld

While our innerworld doesn't have anywhere for them to work, we have two alters with job related psuedomemories, one who is a military figure and another who is a police officer. Both probably based around what we were told about these groups as a child.

Holidays

Roles

We have mostly protectors, then caretakers, ANPs, trauma holders, littles, two gatekeepers, one manager, one fear holder, one persecutor, and one host.

Anaya, The Harbinger, and Makayla are our caretakers

The Harbinger is also our secondary gatekeeper, the primary being Janus.

Callum, Aurora, Michael, Tony, and Vic are all protectors, some of very different types.

Not pointing out trauma or fear holders, or our persecutor

Quintin is our manager, Liam is our host

Henry and Gavin are ANPs

Our littles are Hollow and Claire,

Day 18

Middles

We have three middles. Two we'll be talking about for the first time today because they're very new splits.

Henry! He's an ANP and he loves food. A lot. He is a little goat who will eat anything and loves to say pog and poggers because I hate it. He's 15, and has a southern accent.