#default relationships

We tend to shape our world much the same way it shapes us. Influential cycles start with what is taught behind the closed doors of everyday life. Even though homeless people are judged according to social standards, in general, none of us easily see the depth of social issue. It’s certainly easier to see the personal weakness of the individual to clarify our own strengths. And while  it’s…

Now that Christmas is over, that slow, cold return to overwhelming schedules and over-extended finances begins. Who’s not excited about this? Mentally and physically exhausted. You and I are already looking ahead to a bit of marginal room to get a sense of peace… and fun. With each of us equally in subjection to time, our calendars often have more control over our schedules, decisions, and lives…

Impatiently Waiting for Decent Company

In the information age could it be possible that more flexibility leads to more restriction, just as more choice makes us less free? In today’s blog is the thought that things contained within should be examined. Trying to shorten the length of this because it’s discovered that more information leads to less comprehension. Access to the most precious resources Articles of interest, as much as the…

The Fear of Missing Out

Whenever you encounter something missing, doesn’t it just seem to stand out? I believe that it’s true, we all carry this fear of missing out, and it cages us inwardly. Let me give you an example. Like, if you’re looking to see what’s the latest posting on Facebook because you haven’t had a chance to check it out in the last hour. Or maybe you have to apply the latest gimmick in how to get more…

Random doesn’t accumulate

Sometimes I just like to take a day off and think about my relationships. I think about how they’re going. Think of how I might call that person. Dream about going and getting them some kind of card, and of course, that quickly goes away. Think about the differences, or maybe the indifference. Think about doing this, and doing that. And sometimes, I just think so much that I don’t really do…

Dear Judy House, I have a question on how to reconnect with my family. Our family has split up when my grandmother died, as my aunt and uncle took care of her and kept her in squalor and we feel they did make her situation worse – hastening the time to when she passed. I now have had words, fists and anger with that side of the family over this incident and wonder how we can heal. We called the…