Edit: imma just keep reblogging this everytime I feel like itâs needed. Please consider reading and then reblogging.
You donât have to be particularly interested in my sides (called traits cuz alliteration) to get something out of this, I think. Thanks đ
Ellie (Sentiment): Guys, I think we should do something.Â
Claire (Preservation): Uhh.....bad idea, Ellie.Â
Dael (Logic):Â Wait, what are you talking about.
Ellie:Â Look at everyone! Theyâre upset! Theyâre fighting, some of them! We should do something!Â
Claire: Yeah, great idea, weigh in on an issue that we havenât seen actually unfold in and of itself, without all the facts or a clear idea of when this started.
Claire: Not to mention, why should people listen to us? There are thousands of people in this fandom, why would they listen to what we have to say?Â
Dael: Well, statistically speaking, they have in the past.Â
Ellie: Yeah, we have a voice here! We should use it to do good somehow!Â
Claire: Ok, maybe, but we STILL donât know exactly how this all started happening, weâve been offline most of the day and we came back on to this!
Dael: What exactly is happening?
Ellie: Character discourse in the fanders.Â
Claire: Yeah, thatâs what I said.Â
Dael: Well, if we donât have all the facts, wouldnât it be prudent to go back through the tag and try to discover how this began?
Claire: Thatâs a great idea, if you want to make Ellie cry. Theyâre saying bad stuff about Patton.Â
Dael: ....theyâre what?Â
Claire: Some people donât like how he was acting in the newest video. Several are just calmly discussing and theorizing, of course, but you know how the internet can get.Â
Dael: Oh myâ this is why cancel culture is such a problem, I swearâ
Ellie: So yeah, we have to do something!Â
Claire: IÂ still think itâs better to stay OUT of it!Â
Dael: I mean...thereâs so many arguments that can and should be made....I donât even know where to begin.Â
Leah (Insecurity): Plus if you make them, either A: nobody will read them, or B: people will hate that you made them and be mad that you tried to tell them how to feel.Â
Dael: When did I say I was going to tell them how to feel? One of the arguments I was going to make was that everyoneâs feelings about something like this are going to be different, based on their own biases and experiences, and that itâs important to acknowledge those feelings when approaching another side in debate. People are not inherently ârightâ or âwrongâ for how they interpret Pattonâs actions in a video.Â
Leah: Yeah, but people might get upset that weâre trying to weigh in. You know what some people think of âbigger blogs,â what if they think weâre trying to overstep our boundaries?
Claire:Â This is why we should just do nothing, hide away until it all blows over...or never come out of hiding at all, thatâs good too...
Ellie:Â Okay, Leah, come over here by me, you canât get that close to Claire, you know what happens.Â
Dael:Â I...look. Thereâs so much to unpack here, I donât even know where to start...
Ariyana (Creativity): Uhhhh, how about with the fact that, while the accusations some have laid at Pattonâs feet have some merit, literally ALL of Thomasâs sides have had times where their actions were less than perfect, and that while they all wish what is best for Thomas, they are each often misguided or mistaken in what the best is, and NONE of them can be said to be 100% innocent?Â
Dael:Â Ari! When did you...you know what, you have a point. From Romanâs poor past treatment of Virgil and bravado to Virgilâs own misguided attempts at being listened to with fear tactics, to Loganâs refusal to compromise or listen to other ideas and Pattonâs repression of negative emotions, none of the sides can claim to be as innocent as we would often like them to believe.Â
Ellie:Â Well...thatâs part of the problem too though. Remember the last few videos? A lot of people werenât happy with Logan...and a lot of shade was thrown his way.Â
Dael: Ah, I remember hearing that something similar happened to Roman between the first and second part of Virgilâs redemption arc. Not to mention Deceitâs first appearance. So whatâs the problem then? Besides, of course, that this is happening at all.Â
Claire:Â Some people have asked for #patton negativity to be tagged, and some people (I think?) are upset that because itâs Patton, people are protesting the discourse and asking for tags when it was Logan under fire, nothing like that happened?
Dael:Â ....is there any validity to that claim?
Claire:Â I dunno man, I try to steer us away from discourse usually. I donât know what it was like last time! And I donât even know that much of what itâs like now! But people are getting hate anons again and it just...
Ellie:Â Itâs a bad time.Â
Dael: Oh. Well...isnât this better then?
Claire:Â What do you mean?
Dael: If we as a fandom made mistakes with how we handled discourse in the past, then asking for #patton negativity, or indeed, any #side negativity, to be tagged is less about favoring Patton over other sides or saying that youâre allowed to post negative opinions about the other sides and not Patton, and MORE about us growing as a fandom. Weâre doing better now than we were in the past. Thereâs a difference between hypocrisy and growth.Â
Ellie: Oh....well, what about what theyâre actually saying about Patton?
Dael: I feel as though we as a fandom have already covered this subject, with the discourse surrounding Deceit? You can have whatever opinions you like about the character. You can interpret his actions in the new video as justified, as manipulative, as morally correct or incorrect. Any of those interpretations are fine, valid, and most are possible within canon. But when discussing/portraying those interpretations, it is best to tag appropriately so that people looking for that content can find it and people looking to avoid that content can do so. We also had the conversation about how you do not get to dictate what other people find upsetting. Indeed, the reason we havenât looked into more details on this is because intentionally looking for negative comments about Patton would upset you, is that correct, Ellie?
Ellie:Â Yes, it is. I donât like the idea of Patton being bad.Â
Ariyana: Well, this is the thing. Patton being wrong or making a mistake is not the same as him being bad. Just like Deceit having some good points is not the same as him being good. Each character, each person, has the capability for good and bad. And if you ask me, this dichotomy is both what Deceit was trying to get Character!Thomas to understand and what Actual!Thomas is planning on discussing next in the series, that morality is rarely so black and white. THIS is why, as you said, Dael, cancel culture is such a problem. We must allow people to grow, and we must allow them to make mistakes, and then be forgiven.Â
Dael:Â Exactly, thank you Ariyana. I couldnât put it better myself.Â
Ariyana: Well good, then that means we can wrap this up and hit the hay. Iâm tired! Letâs go, Leah. No, donât you mutter under your breath, itâs going to be fine. Posting this is a good idea, trust me.Â
Dael:Â Glad to be of assistance. Are you two going to be alright now?
Claire:Â I think so, yeah. Talking about it always helps. I just hope the fanders are gonna be okay...
Dael:Â Well, if you recall other times the, ah, FamILY has encountered hardship in the past, they have always overcome it together. And I have seen no evidence to suggest that we should stop believing in them now.Â
Claire:Â Yeah...youâre right, Dael. Thanks. Gânight!
Dael: Goodnight Claire, goodnight Ellie.Â
Ellie: Night guys! Love you!Â
And I love you too, all you fanders out there. Hang tight. Weâll get through this the way we always do. As a famILY. <3