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Divorce and relationship breakdowns are rising at alarming rates. In the U.S., statistics reveal that 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and this figure rises to nearly 90% among college-educated women. Clearly, something deeper is happening beneath the surface. So, why do women leave men even after years of being together? What drives them to move on, often without looking back? Let’s…

Modern Dating for Men: A Wild, Honest, Slightly Inappropriate Survival Guide

Alright, fellas — grab a chair, drop the bravado, and let’s talk real. Dating today isn’t just confusing; it’s a full-contact psychological sport. But don’t worry. I’ve got the ultimate playbook to get you through the night without accidentally self-destructing (again).

Know Your “Why” Before You Wine and Dine Are you going on this date to meet someone meaningful, to grow as a person, or just to escape another evening talking to your houseplants? Be honest. If your goal is sex, cool — just don’t dress it up like you're auditioning for The Notebook 2: This Time, It’s Platonic.

Handle Yourself First — Literally Before heading out, do yourself a favor: relieve the pressure. You'll be more chill, less thirsty, and less likely to mistake basic human kindness for a mating signal. Desperation has a scent, and it ain’t Chanel No. 5.

Be the Man with the Plan (and a Backup) Pick the venue. Own the evening. Don’t ask her where she wants to go — lead confidently. Bonus tip: if she’s not into your Star Trek-themed bar idea, abort mission. Always have a Plan B that doesn’t involve warp speed or Wookiees.

Don’t Get Wasted Before the Steak Arrives This is not a frat party. Keep drinks to a minimum. You want to be relaxed, not reliving your college trauma in front of the bartender at 1 a.m.

Choose a Restaurant Where You Can Hear Each Other Loud clubs = bad. A quiet, classy spot = gold. Women talk — a lot (science backs this). Let her. Nod, listen, and for the love of all things holy, don’t correct her grammar mid-sentence.

Talk Less, Smile More Limit bragging. Avoid saying things like, “I have a penthouse with a retractable roof for watching stars while making love on imported Italian linen.” Unless you actually do. Then, casually mention it and wait for gravity to do the rest.

Never, Ever Talk About Money, Exes, or Call Girl Rates This is a date, not a deposition. Keep the tone flirty, curious, and playful — not bitter, transactional, or lawsuit-ready.

Wine Like You Know What You’re Doing Ask her preference and pick confidently. Mid-range is fine. Don’t joke about “Chateau Chunder” unless you're dating a British comedian.

Touch: Less is More No grabbing. No surprise thigh attacks. She’ll touch you if she wants. If she doesn’t, take the hint. (And yes, Mrs. Palmer is still available.)

Conversation is Not a TED Talk Don’t launch into a monologue about crypto or conspiracy theories. Have a few light stories in your pocket. Borrow them if needed. Don’t worry — it’s not theft; it’s an homage.

The Sex Talk: Be Clever, Not Creepy If you bring up sex, do it with humor. If she laughs and leans in, you’re on the right track. Just don’t drop clinical terms like “fellatrice” unless she looks like someone who owns a signed copy of The Kama Sutra.

The Bill: Be Smooth AF Don’t let the check hit the table. Excuse yourself, pay quietly, come back and say, “It’s taken care of.” That line alone is worth more than the steak tartare and truffle fries combined.

End the Night with Class Open the door. Have a ride ready. No fumbling in the rain. This is your movie moment — play it cool. A gentle touch on her back as she walks out seals the deal. If she leans in for a kiss? Game on. If not? Tip your hat and head to the nearest bar with drag bingo. Who knows, you might still get lucky.

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