Look, I know this person could be a child, so I’m not asking you guys to go harrass them. But please be aware of @courteousmingler. Aside from calling me- a non-binary lesbian with a trans lesbian girlfriend, a rape survivor, and outspoken inclusive feminist- “pro-rape”, “anti-trans”, and basically insinuating I’m a rapist, this person also is apparently spreading my picture to “warn” people at Pride about me. First off, as if I’d even have the ability and privilege to go to a Pride event with my abusive, homophobic parent. So thanks for that. Second, THIS is why exclusionists exist. I openly share that ace people intruding in lgbt spaces and taking resources from those of us that need it more makes me uncomfortable. I regularly post/reblog things here that make it clear that cisgender people who do not experience same-gender attraction do not belong in spaces for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people, for what I assume are obvious reasons. And what do I get when I talk about this? Not using any slurs, hate speech, transphobic or homophobic language or rhetoric, as if I’d ever use them anyway as a lesbian and girlfriend of a beautiful trans woman? Hatred. Abuse. Slander. A person contacting me directly telling me I am a rapist and a terf and think all ace people should die. I don’t even know what else to say. I considered ignoring these messages, but Jesus Christ. You’re going to come to me, to throw lies and triggering posts/language in MY face….and I’M the abusive one??? Fuck. Off.
