This is a spell to help someone become nicer, as well as banish their bad habits and vices, by taking control and making them sweeter and calm!!

You will need:

Cleansed Glass Jar [pink lid optional]

Pink candle (love, sweetness)

Hair [or blood, etc] from the person you're doing the spell to [optional]

Piece of paper

Pen [I used a sharp bone as a pen that I found in the desert lol] and/or Dove's Blood ink (Dove's Blood for love, domination)

Lavender oil (love, self-love, sweetness, calmness)

Rose petals (love, self-love)

Salt (banishing {for bad habits})

Cayenne pepper (banishing {for bad habits})

Honey (love, sweetness, self-love, calmness)

Sugar (love, sweetness, self-love)

Your own hair [or spit, or blood, etc] (domination, taking control of a situation)

What to do:

Light your candle, grab your jar. (I cleansed the jar with smoke before I used it)

Place the hair of the person in the jar, chant: "Love, sweetness, self-love, calmness". Feel free to also say what you want banished from this person (i.e. anger, manipulative tendencies, drinking, smoking, etc).

Write down on the paper with the ink the person's date of birth, zodiac sign, and full name, if you know it. When done, fold up the paper and place it in the jar.

Add lavender oil. Chant again.

Add your rose petals. Chant.

Now add your salt and cayenne. Chant what you want banished from this person's life. Think about what steps this person would have to take to better themselves in order for these bad habits and addictions to be banished (ex. Imagine them realizing their own problems, and finally making an appointment with a therapist or a psychiatrist and learning how to better themselves).

Now add your honey. Chant: "Love, sweetness, self-love, calmness".

Add your sugar, chant again.

Now, here comes the dominating part. Take one of your own hairs and place it on top of the sugar. Pour the candle wax from your pink candle all over it, until the whole hair and surface is covered. Chant again, and add what you need banished from this person. This is so you have control of the situation, that you have control and domination over this person, to make them nicer and banish their problems and habits.