note: I’m assuming you’re a woman because of your profile pic but please let me know if I’m wrong.

Honestly? The idea that women are predatory just for having crushes on other women is a very homophobic one and an awful stereotype that just isn’t true and unfairly targets sapphic women when most predators are men (but not all). But if you want advice that will hopefully help you avoid these nasty stereotypes, my main tip would be to be friendly and not too pushy (you know, you might have to take no for an answer) and being polite even if she’s not interested in you. Also, if you can, maybe try to check if she is into girls first, because then the whole “predatory lesbian asks out nice straight girl” thing is a complete non-issue. She’s not going to call you predatory if she also likes girls (and probably understands how you feel.

Anyways, that’s all the advice I have because I’m not really experienced in the relationship department, but if any of my followers want to chime in it would be appreciated :)

2/2 + talking to my doctor alone and I don't know if she mentioned ASD, but I have to go there to hand my doctor what the college needs on the paper, but I haven't been there since my mom told her I needed accommodations. Sorry this is too long, but it's a huge deal for me since I have to apply until may 15 or something, do you have any scripts to go there and ask her (my doctor) what she needs to know/that I need to "prove" I have ASD/that it's specified in the section of "disabled people"?

Okay, so i’m sorry i’ve been putting this one off so long, i’m just having trouble understanding it completely. I’ve asked for clarification but haven't received a response yet so i’m just going to do my best!

So what i’ve gathered is that you are currently self-diagnosed ASD but you now need a professional diagnosis to get accommodations in college. The script request is for a conversation w/ your doctor about how to obtain a professional diagnosis and recommendation of accommodations. Right? If not, message me, and i’ll try again. (Idk why i'm having such a hard time getting it, stupid brain!)

So, to get diagnosis going is pretty easy, all you need is a qualified medical professional. I would also suggest bringing your mother along as many of these kinds of doctors appreciate an outside perspective to the patent, especially a parent. You can always ask your mom to bring it up for you that way, but if not here's a script: 

Doctor: So, what can we do for you today?

You: I was hoping you would be able to help me figure out how to get officially diagnosed with ASD. Any alternative ways you could help me receive accommodation in college, would be great too. 

Doctor: Sure, we can look at that, maybe first tell me a little more about why you feel that diagnosis fits you and what kind of accommodations you were looking at receiving.

You: Well I *explain reasons for SD and acc.*

Okay, that sounds like something you really need, let’s start with the diagnosis process. 

Disclaimer that we Jewish people have a saying that “two Jews, three opinions” so I fully expect all kinds of opinions on this, but personally I’d wonder what would draw a gentile to learn Yiddish in the first place. It’s so close to German (and occasionally Polish) in some ways so why not just learn that? But maybe I’m being too simplistic.

I’m not going to get mad at a gentile who learns it, but the “why” would really confuse me because it’s such a product of our historical experiences. It would feel like someone I met in graduate school having a small photo album of pictures of me as a child. (And yes, it needs new life, but we should be doing that bit….) @coneybitch

If you’re asking what the word means, it’s a Yiddish expression that you can replace with “Well?” in English. Or, “So? What? What is it?” That kind of thing.

If you’re asking me what’s new in a pun way, well, let’s see… I had a new book come out last week, we just played our last concert of the season, and I need to clean out my fridge tonight :P