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Throughout my life, I've been known to said sarcastic remarks about almost everything . I also known as saying things as they were. No sugar coated words for me. And also....when I get emotional, I would say nasty words that could make a sailor proud. Am I proud of this.. ? Sometimes. Being blunt and sarcastic is my way to show whats on my mind. I don't know any other way. Especially to those who- I personally think - stupid. It bugs me very much when people just don't get simple logic with simple words. But as I grew up, I learn that people doesn't think the same way I do. That I was born different. And that I have to accept the fact that not a lot of people would understand and accepted me. Then came what they called social rules. Rules like "it is not polite to be sarcastic." Or "don't curse or swear it make you looked like uneducated person" True. But I am not like most NT who could sweet-talking all their life but doesn't really mean it. Aspies said what they intended to say. Even if it harsh. We find it difficult to say meaningless words. That's why we chose to keep it for ourselves most of the time. Rather than being misunderstood, it is better keep mum and carry on with life. Maybe that is why most of aspies are very very private person. I for one, is getting tired of being misunderstood. And when I do defend myself, most likely people with say I am stubborn.. What?? Yes we do have detailed perspective and sometimes we need to remind ourselves to take a helicopter's view on the matter. Luckily our brain are designed in such a way that we could use logic and strategies anytime we want. But then again, the problems would appear as soon as we open our mouth. So how to deal with this? I still find a better approach to NT's . To make my voice heard without being mistaken and misunderstood. So here is my first step... I usually rehearsed the words I want to say in my mind. Or asked a friend whether saying this or that are appropriate. I still failed every now and then.. Words that came out still hurts people and I ended up feeling misunderstood. Just don't give up the fight yet... I truly believe, someday we will get our words across. If its not to the universe, at least to the one we love.

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