I adore ColdFlash. What do you think it is that people love so much about the ship? I'm just thinking about how on ao3 ColdFlash is still the most written about ship by a long way and it's kinda fascinating to think about what it is that draws us all to it. More so that the canon relationships.
Itās hard to say exactly, but I think thereās a few things. Iāve talked on this before, but I think it comes down a lot of the chemistry, the push and pull, cat and mouse dynamic they have. The impasse that implies a challenge but a mutual respect. The fact that they seem to understand one another and what the other thinks and will do, just that intuitive understanding of one another, despite the fact that really, they donātĀ know each other all that well.Ā
For me, a lot of it is from that, and from things like them being put in positions where they donāt necessarily want to trust and rely on the other, but do anyway, and they way they go from enemies to unimpressed allies. Their banter.Ā
Thereās this concept in psychology calledĀ āflowā. It initially referred to a sort of state of being, but applies to a tonĀ of things on a conceptual level, beyond just a mood or mode. Itās basically this:
If youāre too too at something, you get bored of it, and if you donāt have the requisite skills for it, you feel anxious and overwhelmed.
Applying this to relationships (and yes, this isnāt just me, there are actual published papers and books in psychology who apply this to relationships), you can see flirting being in a flow zone -- that sort of happy tension. You can see loveĀ occuring in a flow zone, where you donāt feel complacent and uninterested by the person, but you do feel safe and comfortable with them and inspired by them.Ā
And I think that in all their interactions, Len and Barry fall into the flow zone. Theyāre a mix of equal skills to meet the challenge the other creates, always making things harder but both so evenly matched they end up on this even level. And thatās true of a lot of heroes and their nemesis, but few do it with the sort of mutual respect andĀ āi donāt actually want you to die / get hurtā vibe that Len and Barry do, the sort of teasing way they interact.Ā
And final notes? We get a lot of great moments and lines in canon. We get the woods scene in 1x16 where they make a tenuous deal, and then in 1x22 where they stand wayyy too close in Saints and Sinners and where Len betrays Barry but saves his life and teaches him a lesson. We get Barry trying to manipulate Len and Len dishing it right back. We get 2x03 where we get so much depth and exploration of Len and Lisaās lives, and that gives so much weight to everything else going on between Len and Barry, I find.
And of course, these are relatively fleshed out characters whose backstories we doĀ know (compared to some of the main crew who somehow had less of an arc than Captain Cold did until season 3... wtf writers). Complex 3-dimensional characters with chemistry who are also very attractive? Are often going to end up shipped, just in general? :)