We started class by writing down 6 words each that describe/ identify ourselves and then put them on the board to then mark them with our unique color to signify we also identify with it. Then we transitioned into talking about different taboo topics in the church which mostly lead to gender and sexuality in the world and with God. I think within the church, gender is a very black and white topic, and it can be very irritating. It always makes me think of when it is time to move heavy objects, especially in a church, people tend to say “okay men, let's move these things”. However, although I am a woman, I am strong and capable of manual labor. Last winter, my church hosted an event and when it got to tear down time, a guy was like “no, let the men carry those things, they're heavy”, but another male employee of the church just yelled “yayyyy sexisim”. This was something that made me smile because it felt like for once I was seen as strong and capable in the church. I also think something that is important to remember is a quote from St. Agustine, "God is not what you imagine or what you think you understand. If you understand you have failed." Part of being a Christian is the never-ending seeking to understand God through a series of questions that may or may not be answered. We are forever changing beings, shaped by our identity, the world around us, our personal beliefs, and many other things.