This morning, I woke up to a message that comedian Sarah Silverman had taken to twitter to call out Adam Fannin, a hateful Baptist preacher from Jacksonville, FL, who called for violence against her in one of his sermons.Ā
The name, look of the church, and style of preaching immediately screamedĀ āSteven Anderson cultā to me, so I did a quick search and found that Stedfast Baptist Church is, in fact, a new IFB church. I also learned that Fannin was discovered to be part of the drama surrounding Donnie Romero early this year, and is no longer preaching at his former church in Jacksonville. The official church YouTube account posted a video this afternoon basically telling Sarah SilvermanĀ āGuess what, heās not here any more but not because of what he said about you. Youāre still a terrible person. He just also is a terrible person.ā (The link is there as a source, but donāt click it if you donāt want to give them views.)Ā
The replies to Silvermanās tweets are largely supportive, with the occasional negative comment either weakly defending the pastor (i.e.Ā āheās not calling for violence, heās just saying he wouldnāt mind if it happenedā) or telling her the calls for violence are wrong but so were her words. (Her words about how sheādĀ ācrucify Jesus againā were from a comedy special and taken out of context, of course.)Ā
One common form of comment was about how Fannin isnāt aĀ āreal Christianā. While his words certainly donāt represent anything Christ stood for, itās unfair to claim he isnāt aĀ āreal Christianā when so many Christians attend these churches and believe the same things.Ā
The concept of āfake Christiansā is a common one expressed by Christians about people who poorly represent Christianity. (Disclaimer: I donāt know for a fact that any of these examples are actually Christians except for the one who says so in their tweet. My assertion about these comments often coming from Christians is based on years of experiences and observations. These examples are simply taken from the replies to yesterdayās tweet.) Any time something negative is said about Christians you can expect many Christians to chime in.Ā āHeās not a real Christian!āĀ āReal Christians never would have done that to you.āĀ āThis person clearly never was as Christian as they claim they were or they wouldnāt have left in such a big way.ā The individuals this idea ofĀ āfake Christiansā can be applied to are varied, but the idea behind it is always the same. Christians want to separate themselves from people who do awful things. They question or discredit someoneās faith because they donāt want to be associated with that personās actions, nor do they want to believe that they or the people they love could do the same things.Ā
The problem with this line of reasoning, of course, is that it is a sign of privilege that they are allowed to get away with it. In the US, no other religion gets to separate itself from the horrible actions of its extremists. When a Muslim commits a major crime, hate crimes against Muslims go up. When a Christian commits a major crime, other Christians play the victim and talk about how that fake Christian took advantage of theirĀ āgood nameā. Itās a double standard that Iām sure many of us here are aware of. This is something I posted about fairly recently. This idea is also something that a lot of more liberal Christians are currently using as their way to explain the Christians who are supporting Trump. Obviously Trumpās hateful rhetoric does not exemplify the teachings of Christ, but heās playing on the mentality that is widespread in American churches and itās false to say any Christian who votes for Trump is aĀ āfake Christianā. I highly recommend this article by Chrissy Stroop, who is much more eloquent in her discussion of this topic than I could ever hope to be.Ā
As for former Christians who have left the church/their faith, one of the most hurtful things a person can say to many of us is that we never truly believed or were never truly Christians. (For the record, while I have left the church, I do still consider myself a Christian. I would love to attend a church that represents my beliefs, but theĀ āchurchā as it is currently known is America is not something I want a part of.) In my observation, the most vocal people who left the church are the ones who were once the most devoted. They werenāt faking that devotion. They truly believed. Many of them still do, but they canāt reconcile the fact that the church behaves in a way that goes against everything the Bible tells us that Jesus stood for. So they leave, often at great cost. Then they have their experiences (often the experiences of the first 18-20 years of their lives even) invalidated by people who have no right to do so. Not only that, but invalidates the extreme struggle a person goes through when they get to a point of leaving their faith.Ā
I know I have a number of followers who are still involved in Christian churches. I donāt know if any of you have ever been guilty of this (even in a well-intentioned way), but if you have been I beg of you to please look into this concept more and listen to the voices of those who have left the church. (I recommend Chrissy Stroop in general, and she retweets a lot of other great people who talk about similar subjects.) As a practicing Christian, if you disagree with the harmful and abusive actions of other Christians, it is absolutely your responsibility to stand up to them. You may not feel like they will listen to you, but you may have more of a voice than you know. You have a level of privilege that many of us will never have. Please help us. Work to improve the church you love from the inside. Those of us who werenāt able to stay would greatly appreciate it!