I think the issue with the "same s/o dni" arguthat is going on on tiktok at the moment is that people seem to have either one of three arguments.
1. "Well your s/o is popular so you can't be jealous when you find out other people are dating them in their drs."
2. "It's selfish, how are people supposed to enjoy your content now?"
Or, 3. "Well they're not the same person in my dr, they're two completely different people but they share the same name, face and are both similar to the source material."
While all of these things are objectively true, you are literally just entitled. SOME people who are "same s/o dni" do attack and harrass people for having the same s/o. Majority dont. Literally most of us don't give a fuck who you're dating, just as long as we don't have to listen to it. We block you on purpose. So we don't have to watch some random person with someone who looks identical to our s/os.
And you could argue that this is stupid or whatever, but what you're really doing is pushing someone's boundaries, and its genuinely disgusting to see that so much of the shifting community is so blatantly alright with crossing boundaries and laughing at others for having that boundary or calling them immature or "stupid" because their character may or may not be the main character or someone that a lot of people shift for.
You are so fucking entitled. This does not have to be an argument. At all. What is actually immature is how people who are alright with sharing their s/os can so easily sit there on their tiktok comment section calling same s/o dni people names and pushing onto already upset people that theyre gonna do this and that with the s/o in question.
I hate the shifting community, I really truly do. I hate it with a burning passion. You people can't do anything without having an argument.
Just shut the fuck up. All of you. Get off tumblr and twitter and tiktok and go and fucking shift.
