yeahhh…. okay fair enough. and yeah i’m glad i didn’t have to do the waiting…….. s2e11 was so painful

idk. yes haru obviously misinterpreted the s2e11 situation but i think if you want to be consistent both are physical and either you have to accept both or neither. Also the things that haru did/said to makoto that day aren’t very nice either :(

The context of both scenes are completely different. The physicalness of both scenes are completely different. There is no aggression in Makoto’s touch, so don’t compare it to the attitude that Rin had. The things that Haru said to Makoto are not nice and he regretted them from the moment he said them. Haru apologised to Makoto, and Makoto accepted that apology. Has Rin every apologised for everything he said and did?

this is interesting, i am also a HM/MH fan but just wondering why you think that scene in s1e4 is so different from s2e11?

Makoto didn’t corner Haru against a fence where he had no where to go, but confronted him in a place where he could leave any time he pleased (which he does, he runs away from Makoto at the end of it.) Makoto grabbed Haru’s wrist but you can easily tell that his grip wasn’t firm enough to hurt Haru: the reason Makoto did this in the first place was because Haru wasn’t listening to his words so he tried to connect with Haru and bring attention to what he was saying through another means instead of verbally.

The reason Makoto brought this up in the first place was because Haru was so astray that he was bordering self-destruction (which is what we see in episode 9 when he stops swimming during the competition.) He knew he had to do something because Haru couldn’t go on any longer like this and he wanted to remind Haru that no matter what he did, he will always love and support him so Haru doesn’t need to stress about it so much. Makoto’s intention was to do nothing but help Haru and protect him from the pressure and anxiety he was experiencing. Makoto confronted Haru out of care and concern, and it was never his intention to fight with him, but he just couldn’t watch Haru go on like this because he knew how much they were both hurting. Everything that happened that night happened because Makoto cared about Haru, but Haru misinterpreted Makoto and thought that he was pushing him into competitive swimming like everyone else was doing, and he didn’t want that. The reason he interpreted it like this was because he just wouldn’t listen to Makoto, which was the main issue that Makoto addressed during their fight. Their fight was a mutual one, with them both yelling at each other - Makoto was trying to get through Haru’s thick skull but Haru didn’t want to listen to him.

In contrast, the reason Rin confronted Haru was because Rin was selfish; Rin was trying to manipulate Haru and force him to swim for him. This whole incident was so one-sided with just Rin yelling into Haru’s face, and I think it made Haru (and me tbh) so uncomfortable. Rin had Haru against a fence with both hands on either side and Haru couldn’t leave whenever he wanted because of that. The fact that people called it “sexual tension” was what made it even worse for me because if that’s the type of sexual tension you have in a relationship then you need to get the hell out of that relationship because it’s emotionally abusive.

The overall ambience in both scenes says enough about what type of scenes it were: in episode 11 it was desperation because Makoto was desperate for Haru to just listen to him. In episode 4 it was aggression because Rin was doing his very best to be as intimidating as possible and basically threaten Haru into doing what he said.

Makoto tried to help Haru. Rin tried to manipulate Haru.

Yunho said “What’s up with that?” And Changmin said “I mean you should do things properly” in a way that carries the same connotation as “I mean you should get your shit together” lol

wheeee thank thank! :DD so I wasn’t that far off lol

here’s the video again: https://twitter.com/yun02min/status/657302546445283328

changmin bb hugging yunho bb from behind :33 (っ^ J ^(* ∵ *)

Tagged by: kyuline13 // I see you are procrastinating as well;

What Was Your
Last drink: tea with more honey than tea
 Last phone call: mommy
 Last text message: “Well for me i though the exact opposite hahaha i thought when I’d take a break I’ll never start again so here I am lol" right haepout lol you totally abandoned your tumblr
 Last song you listened to: some Beyoncé song, I watched her concert 
 Last time you cried: Idk tbh but I almost cried when my dear friend was cutting my hair last Wednesday ((IT FEELS SO SHORT TT TT) 
 Dated someone twice: yep
Been cheated on: no
 Kissed someone and regretted it: mhmmmm yes but no lol
 Lost someone special: yes
 Been depressed: not anymore :) 
 Been drunk and thrown up: …oops
 Kissed a stranger: yes
 Drank hard liquor: lol
 Lost glasses/contacts: nope 
 Had sex on a first date: noo
 Broke someone’s heart: yes :/ 
 Been arrested: no
 Turned someone down: yep
 Cried when someone died: yes ofc
 Fallen for a friend: yes

In The Past Year, Have you
 Made a new friend: yes manyy
 Fallen out of love: no
 Laughed until you cried: yes! Everyday basically lol
 Met someone who changed you: mhm not like one person but I’ve recently met with a friend from high school and she said that she sees that I have changed, positively ofc lol haha but yeah new environment new people :)
 Found out who your true friends are: yes! yes! yes!
 Found out someone was talking about you behind your back: not in the past year 
 Kissed someone on your FB list: yepppp

General Information
 How many people on your FB friends list do you know IRL: the majority like 90-95%?
 Do you have any pets: no but I want a dog in the future
Do you want to change your name: no
 What did you do for your last birthday party: got some good food and went partying and saw dada life live woooo 
 What time did you wake up today: um 10:30 ish?
 What were you doing at midnight last night: watching Arrow; almost throughhhh currently at 3x16 adsgskaldh
 Name something you cannot wait for: the next three weeks to past; like really? 8 exams in 2 weeks??! I’m going to dieeeeee
 Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: no hahah story time: me and my friend watched some surfers (in Munich there is this place where 365 days a year you can see ppl surfing so cool) and we named this real hottie Tom soooo lol
 What’s getting on your nerves right now: my studies. As I said 8 examsss help, and all I want to do is sleep and eat
 Blood type: I actually don’t know 
 Nickname(s): not many bc my name is pretty short alrdy haha “Anh-i” maybe heh 
 Relationship status: single 
 Zodiac sign: taurus 💪
 Pronouns: ?
 Favourite TV show: amercian shows: atm like arrow, the flash, tvd - all variety shows with Sj/sj member and I rly enjoy watching WGM and running man loool
 College: EAM Europa Akademie München
 Hair color: black/red
 Long or short hair: long but not that long anymore sobbbss
 Height: 171 cm which is I think 5'7
 Do you have a crush on someone: maybeee 
 What do you like about yourself: that I’m slowly learning to accept and love myself as I am 
 Righty or lefty: righty

First
 First surgery: haven’t gotten a surgery yet
 First piercing: ear lobe
 First best friend: my best friend who i met in kindergarden, we lived besides each other as well :) ah good times 
 First sport you joined: Tennis 
 First vacation: as for me traveling alone to Paris for ss4 lol 
 First K-Pop song: Super Junior - miracle or happiness I can’t rly remember or maybe key of heart from BoA 
 First anime: idk maybe inuyasha or detektive Conan when I was little and they came on TV but really watched watched , … lol death note 
 First phone: nokia hehe

Right Now
 Eating: Milka chocolate - mit bunten kakaolinsen haha
 Drinking: water
I’m about to: sleep or watch another episode of arrow
 Listening to: so sick cover by max Schneider and Sam tsui

Future
 Waiting for: the next years, going to be stressful but awesome 
 Want kids: yes, but omg I watched a birth video just last week idk you know when you just watch videos on YouTube and you end up somewhere and yeah basically I’m really afraid of giving birth, bc I can’t handle pain really well 
 Get married: yes but well not in near future 
 Career: sth with me traveling hopefully as I’m studying tourism/event management kk

Which Is Better
 Lips or eyes: eyes
 Hugs or kisses: both
 Shorter or taller: taller
 Older or younger: older
 Romantic or spontaneous: spontaneous 
 Nice nose, stomach, or arms: arms nose stomach 
 Hook-up or relationship: relationship

Do You Believe in Yourself: yes 💪
 Miracles: umm yep
 Love at first sight: nope but you can def be attracted to sb at first sight 
 Heaven: idk
 Hell: same idk
 Santa Claus: hahah
 Kiss on the first date: not necessarily, depends on the situation and person 
 Angels: yup
 Extraterrestrial beings: need to google that/ ok so aliens? Idk there could be others than us somewhere right?

..bb

Thank you so much!