i mean they did give us an explanation (not an excuse, i'm not saying the reason excuses shit let's be clear!) as to why she went so hard in the demonic direction, it's a direct response to being abused as a child for using any of her powers, period. like i get the whole i'm being treated as a monster so i'll just be one motto that abi adopted especially given that her witch side of her family rejected her and her father's side did too because MISOGINY
like she really couldn't exist in an inbetween she sort of had no choice but to pick and she picked evil and tbh i much preferred their attempt at redeeming her than whatever the fuck they tried to do with parker. parker was meant to be like cole and i know this fandom loves to act like cole was evil all the time but he was not. the first half of season 4 and the last half of season 3 this man was TRYING his hardest. he was tempted so many times and didn't stray
idk which user said it but they really said it best, cole was like a magnet for evil most of the time like anytime he was getting his shit together and was ready to commit to being good not just for phoebe but trying to do good some shit would happen. he was willing to be a mortal, stripped of his powers and the source bullshit happened. parker on the other hand tried for two milliseconds before succumbing to evil like he clearly did not love maggie enough
tbh like let's call a spade a spade parker and maggie will Never be cole and phoebe i honestly don't like the i am going to murder you and in order to do that i am going to pretend to be the perfect man for you plotline bc like while yes cole was falling in love w phoebe phoebe was falling in love w the facade you know However that plotline? has so much more sex appeal than whatever parker and maggie were doing. i mean. hello?? holding a dagger up while you're kissing her, you have to plunge it into her heart, but you can't you love her too much, like???? like!!!!!!!! blasting him across the room w your psychic vagina fucking wishes. bc imo the like real sex appeal of cole and honestly the romantic one too was that he was like Evil he's like i am a bad person and i do not love until he meets phoebe and suddenly he's like woah. hey now. like?? that's so much better than i'm half demon but i'm fighting it and i'm a momma's boy and she's using her science to cure me uwu like that's cute and all but then is he even really a demon? it's like you said like i think idk i might be reaching but it makes him succumbing to evil so much weaker bc cole was fighting against a century of doing shady shit parker was never full evil and then "fell in love" (??) maggie but then still chose to go full evil not a past he was falling on bc he was scared (confession: been a hot minute since i've watched s1 but like. i am confident he was never really his father's right hand man that was hunter's job, the much more fun demon who we killed off too soon) instead parker just chose to be evil bc like ??? he did??? idk like why even. he was poorly written. full stop.
anyways! abi! i will say introducing her mother really was like. thee explanation. like what's that one post like daddy issues will make you like a people pleaser and awkward at parties but mommy issues will make u a psychopath? yeah. that. parker & abi. still like. i feel like they should have gone quirky morally gray villain than try to do the full i see the error of my ways and am good now because like. idk like what exactly was her redemption. like what was the catalyst. like tcos being like hey! ur being bad. bc like. i'm pretty sure when you are slicing open a dead body so u can scrawl a message in blood. u know you're being bad. you know that is a choice you're making. like. i don't fully understand her change of heart. i think i would have liked it more if she remained her pseudo feminist gay rights evil overlord who had a very terse relationship w tcos like. like they weren't even friends but idk maybe macy did some magic w her demonic powers like tying the charmed ones to abi so if any of them were to die then abi would die too but unfortunately that's vice versa so they can't kill her w/o risking killing one of them (also if we did this plotline the writers would actually have to listen and work with mads instead of just saying don't let the door hit you on your way out)
in regards to cole, i don't like his "redemption arc" bc like. we started it and they we said fuck that he's the source now so it's less of a redemption arc and more like a redemption crescent sliced in half by the hardest tank southbound anyone has ever seen. but they did do it right for the most part. like, yes, he was mainly being good for phoebe not because like he wanted to be good but more because he wanted phoebe But we were sowing seeds of like. he could have potential to grow like the good the bad and the cursed when prue's like your first instinct shouldn't be to kill and cole does like try to actually help the narrative but then he "backslides" by killing that one guy which like honestly? the guy deserved it But if u are currently in demon recovery maybe just don't. like cole could have just shimmered behind him and knocked him out. like. if he really wanted to prove he was good and all that. i still prolly woulda killed the guy too idk maybe not tho if prue is breathing down my neck if i am trying to pass the in-laws test i do tend to refrain from murder just as a baseline rule. anyways. early s4 cole ftw. my favorite cole era except for maybe when he’s batshit crazy bc i do love julian’s acting there. like um that scene where the doors all start rattling and there’s echoing knocking and everyone’s like what the fuck is going on right now and then cole shimmers in and they’re like jesus!! cole! and he’s like well i knocked and in the same scene the ohmygod wait ur pregnant 🥺 like. phole had already tanked by then. but at least cole was entertaining there, unlike in his source era which just sucked in like. every conceivable way.