usually its hard to hold co-con and especially this divide of like, body parts being divided amongst alters, but gd. sometimes when im upset or crying, dean will co-con with me to specifically take control of our hands/arms, they go out of my control while he just. holds me and pets my hair and strokes my face, dries my tears. he has a really firm, reassuring grip and his hugs are one of the best feelings, its so comforting and i love him so much