MAD/MADIR paraphile
an alternative name for anti-contact "harmful" paraphiles that doesnt imply the attraction itself is harmful. the idea is anti-contact and anti-abuse "big 3/5" paraphiles are MADIR paraphiles. meanwhile pro, comp, neu etc. contact paraphiles are simply sexual predators.
MADIR stands for the main focus of attraction for the big 3/5, being minors, animals, the dead, and often additionally incest, and rape
it has no other inherent stances besides being anti-contact and anti-abuse, to my knowledge.
flag colors are my associations with each aspect of MADIR from top to bottom, with the optional bluish-white representing good nature, safety over desire, fantasy and fiction, and similar ideas
also important note: while I dont want them interacting directly with this post or blog Im okay with minors with paraphilic disorders using my flag for this. Im against MIK but paraphilias are complex, not necessarily sexual and often disordered so its difficult to tackle. all I ask is dont wave it around publicly because there are so many people in the community who may wanna take advantage of you. TLDR, if youre under 18 but this idea aligns with you, feel free to still use it where I wont see it (including publicly). just stay safe with it. stay safe online in general.
same with anti-c radqueers, I dont wanna associate with you personally but you deserve terminology thats useful to you. only thing that changes is you can use it publicly idgaf just dont @ me
coined by @dark-dickbin, flag by aster, tagging @rq-critical-coining-n-stuff , @tenting-archive @mogai-afterdark








