I really didn’t want to make this, so why did i?

Because Milo calls me its abuser, and i can not let that stand.

Please read the entire thing.

milos pronouns: it/itself

MILOS TUMBLR URLS

TWITTER: SODAPOPTOPS / DENTINGBLOWS

CURRENT/ACTIVE TUMBLR: caracals / bluefur 

ART TUMBLR: sodapoptops

PAST: elecig, kitsuras, silverpelt, foxkid, caracals, sparkpaw, orbiter, caracal2, divinevulpine, barkarama, foxgender, foxjerk, Turtletail, bluefurs, bluefur

YOUTUBE: sodapoptops

DEVIANTART: flintfangs

Here are descriptions and sources for everything milo has done to me these past 5 years. This will be added onto as more proof comes up.

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Milo will try and say that it has already apologized for these things listed below. It has not apologized to me for stalking me, making friends with my irl friend just to stalk me, linking people who actively hated me my suicide note for the purpose of making fun of me, keeping information about a sexual abuser away from me to hurt me, namedropping me while i was in the emergency room, purposefully sending me into panic attacks, and going to extreme lengths to find my vent blog for whatever freak reason. Milo has only ever made half-assed apologies to me that meant NOTHING because it always turns around and continues to treat me like shit.

Milo has called me the abuser. I want everybody to read this before they decide to believe what Milo says, because i legitimately havent felt safe on any website or community in five years because of it. its unfair that milo talks poorly of me without me being there to support myself or defend myself, so i made this document for references and to link to people who have been told lies.

I will not include the story for the other people who have been treated poorly by milo. That is their choice to do when they feel ready and strong enough to do it. making this post was extremely hard for me even after five years of this person’s lies and mistreatment.

Anyways, here it is. If milo wants to spew out a completely one sided tale of how it did ‘nothing wrong, i have this.

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Milo has linked my suicide note to people. and made fun of me for being suicidal. it has MOCKED ME for being suicidal to these people as if it WANTED ME TO GO THROUGH WITH IT. I contacted the person who it linked the posts to, here is their testimony;

x

They describe how milo made fun of me for almost attempting suicide and treating it as a joke. there are no further screenshots of milo actually saying this because the messages have deleted themselves, but theres enough proof in the fact that milo has never denied doing this & acknowledged this as fact in their “debunk” (which i linked & responded to at the bottom of this post)

Milo has made friends with my IRL friend (sid) just to stalk me, get information, and induce panic. When Milo became friends with my sid, i confronted milo about its intentions. Milo has also tried to befriend with people who were close to me before, with the examples of following my best friend at the time and drawing fanart for my girlfriend.  this is an extremely toxic & abusive behavior for i felt incredibly unsafe in all of my interpersonal relationships, and i never had any safety. it tried its absolute best to isolate me from the ones that i cared about.

I asked milo if it did this for malicious reasons, and it responded saying that it “knew them months before” I did. Milo later admitted to lying about it.

x / x 

So, since milo had ADMITTED TO LYING, AND ADMITTED TO BEING FULLY AWARE THAT IT WAS LYING, it can not make the excuse that it has “memory problems” in this instance.* *(edit: i do not believe milo fakes its memory problems. i just do not want it to use it as an excuse.)

After, milo then tries to come up with an excuse saying that it “wanted to get closer to me” so that it could apologize to me. that not only is this extremely freaky, it was also completely unwarranted because i have made it clear to milo dozens of times that i did not want anything to do with it. I told milo that i never wanted to speak to it again, yet it still went to unimaginable lengths to try to talk to me.  x / x

although there is a hole in this excuse- milo actively hated me, and even made it obvious on its blog that it hated me during the entire event. if milo really wanted to “get closer to me” so it could “apologize”, why would it continue to antagonize me?  I asked sid if milo was telling the truth; he then responded saying the milo never once showed any interest in apologizing to me. This is proof that milo only became friends with him to try to isolate me & get information about me. x / x

Milo has also misgendered me in calls with that said friend x

I had been non binary for over a year  when this happened. Milo was INCREDIBLY AWARE OF MY NAME AND PRONOUNS, and before this happened i had to remind it several times to not misgender me.

It has sat on my blog for long extended periods of time with its friends to purposefully send me into panic. they all knew i kept a map.

milos friend coming clean about it; x / x

Milo has namedropped me and publicly talked shit about me while i was in the emergency room. I dont have any screenshots for this event because I wasnt in any mental capacity to deal with it. but again, milo has never denied this as a farce and that is enough proof.

had this on its BYF / (full byf)

milo has made MANY transphobic comments in calls. in a group call with some friends, milo had made statements about how “gross” and “ugly” trans people’s genitalia is because it looks so “fake”. it makes these comments and then continues to reblog supportive posts on tumblr to cover it up. (Milo has also done this with the topic of polyamorous relationships. it was unsupportive of my healthy relationship, and then covers it up by reblogging supportive posts about it. you can imagine how frustrating this is.)

milo denies ever having misgendered me after two different people came to me about it x / x / x (black = milo, blue = me)

A reason why milo hated polyamorous people was because it “had a bad experience with it in the past”. I believed Milo and I respected that about it, I never pressured it into any conversations about the topic and I always asked if they were comfortable. I believed that milo had been cheated on until the two participants of this event contacted me explaining what really happened.

x / x

To recap these screenshots, Milo had been in a relationship with a person IRL, but they were constantly on and off. During one of their OFF PERIODS, Milo saw somebody kissing them on the cheek. Even though they werent technically together at the time, Milo called it cheating.

Milo then went to the extreme to encourage their suicide, it caused this person to self harm and when they called milo out on its actions, milo told them things such as “cut deeper” and “you deserve to kill yourself”.

1 / 2 / 3* *(taken from its vent blog. i had access to it at the time, milo consented to me having it)

it has gone to EXTREME LENGTHS to find my private vent blog, a place where i would openly talk and feel safe about talking about real life abuse and trauma. *heres it admitting this . It just assumed that I had searched for its vent blog with no proof whatsoever. I never once, ever, wanted to intentionally find milos vent blog to stalk. *(this screenshot is taken after this callout was posted & milo posted a response to this callout which is linked below. The blue is from this callout and the yellow is Milo’s response.)

milo doesnt own up to its actions and apologize to the people it has hurt. It posted a fake apology to this post, and after it apologized it continued to mock the callout with its friends. After the entire polyamory fight, i never once got an apology for how it made me feel.

Other testimonies/screenshots

These screenshots do not include the 4 people who I mentioned considered milo’s abuser. Please stay safe. heres some freaky kinnie shit

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OLD DRAMA/REASONS FOR DISTRUST/REASONS-WHY-IM-PISSED-IT-CALLS-ME-THE-ABUSER

the only reason i am listing these things is to put in perspective how much i can not handle and or trust this individual, and it also is supposed to stress how long the manipulation has lasted, and its also supposed to help you understand that I was a victim.

2012

I used to have a deviantart group, and it was called gravityfalls-fc. It was my first large group, over 1,000 people were members. and since i was underage, i got banned from dA. When i got banned, i told milo that it could become the founder while i was gone. When I was on a call with it one day, I had to go do homework. I left for about 20 minutes and came back to the call. I checked the group and everything was gone- the submissions, the members, everything. I asked milo what had happened, and it just started laughing at me. I started to cry, and I kept asking why it did that and it just kept laughing at me. it then proceeded to tell me that it was hilarious. 

I had extreme trust issues after this event and my parents were worried about me because I had expressed my depression and paranoia. I was later put into counselling not solely for this event (there had been other family/behavioral issues*) but it was a reason. This was a long time ago, but I am putting this here to emphasize how badly i was treated throughout the years of knowing it..

Milo then proceeded to contact my father through facebook somehow, telling him that i had made another deviantart despite me being underage- in an attempt to get me in trouble with my family (and im also going to add that this was very dangerous for me for reasons mentioned above*) I had made several deviantart accounts to get away from milo, but it always eventually found them through stalking and digging.

2014 -discovering my own gender identity, milo being unsupportive and calling me and other people transphobic slurs

- stated cisphobia was just as bad as transphobia

- identified as “truscum” and got its friends to send me death threats & misgender me on my public deviantart profile

- stalking me (finding my new blogs after remaking, being on my statcounter for over an hour at times)

- hatefollowing

- called me out for being non binary for the “fad.” made an entire tumblr post about it in an attempt to get people to harass me - made fun of me for wearing a dress, questioning my gender identity because i had worn one

And 2015-16 is everything listed on the top.

note: in milos response, it tries to justify itself by saying that it grew up in a transphobic household. this is understandable to a degree, but milo still has labelled me an abuser even after it has done all of this to me. i have said this so many times before, but the reason this callout was posted was to defend my name and my reputation.

the fact that milo wants to call me its “abuser” after five years of it constantly harassing me and gaslighting me makes me legitimately want to gut myself so stay away from me if you support this users actions. it still blames me for every single thing that has happened to this day even though it is the one who has misgendered me, harassed me, stalked me, bullied me, and sent me into panic attacks on purpose.

milo called me its abuser. it has not come up with a single reason as to why. 

i was forced into countless friendships with this person because the only way to get it to stop harassing me and stalking me was to get on its good side. And even during the friendships, i was at a constant low and i felt pressured into saying things and agreeing with it. ever since i met it and ever since our first fallout i have not felt safe at all on any website and i have not felt safe in any relationship that i have had because it would always crawl up behind me and find some way to make me paranoid. I can not take not feeling safe anymore. please do not follow me  if you interact with it, please.

Milo is also known to harass people out of ill will. I also know that many people consider milo their abuser. Please, Please, Please stay safe and stay away from me if you support this person.

EDIT 4/17/16

Milo has posted a google doc attempting to “debunk” this callout, and I have responded to it accordingly with more proof of its lying and mistreatment. Here is the doc, and it provides a link to milo’s response as well.