This is important
  People need to finally understand that you CANNOT force anyone to love you, care for you, text you, kiss you or not even hug you.    And itâs not the right thing to do. People need to be free (in a reasonable way). You must let them ACT the way they feel, thatâs how you get to know them, thatâs how you discover their true face.    If someone doesnât go your way, you can always tell them whatâs bothering you but you canât force them. After you say what bothers you, that very moment starts to define what kind of person they are. If they keep acting the way they want, means that they donât care about you or your feelings, they are not true to you or maybe even to themselves.    Forcing someone to go your way means to turn them into you,imprison them, or maybe eve push them away.     If you end up turning them into you, one day their true self will rise and out of nowhere you will lose them, wondering yourself how did that happen.     If you imprison them one day they will realize that theyâre in an unhappy friendship or relationship and they will leave you.     If you push them away you can never know them truly or where this could take you two, maybe you could have worked it out, or maybe not but the point is, you canât force people to act your way.     Everybody is different and they should act the way they truly feel, not only for themselves but also for you to get to know them better.     Ask yourself: how can you get to know someoneâs true self or personality, if they always say yes to you and whatever bothers you?Â
