#candyfeels

Your friends tell you that maybe he’s just torpe. His friends tell you to forgive him, he’s just torpe. But is he, really?

We all know this type. He can’t seem to bring himself to tell that one girl that he likes her. He’s the type who just sits around watching all the chances in the world pass him by. He’s the type of guy who won’t go for a girl he likes no matter what.

But here’s the thing: That type doesn’t really exist.

The concept of torpe guys is nothing but a lie we tell ourselves to make up for some guy’s lack of effort. Sure, he could just be really shy. He could be suffering from major fear of rejection. He may find himself unworthy of your awesomeness. But don’t you see? These are nothing but excuses.

When a guy likes you--and I mean truly, deeply likes you--there’s nothing that can stop him from pursuing you. He will choose you over those ridiculous excuses in his head.

So when you find yourself torpe-zoned, try not to make excuses for him. Be wary of his actions or lack thereof. If he’s not doing anything, then what more is there to it? Do yourself a favor and walk away. Do not be held captive by the illusions in the torpe zone.

Know that no guy is ever torpe for the girl he genuinely likes. The moment a guy accepts being labeled as the torpe guy, it means he’s decided that you are not worth overcoming all those fears for. If he really likes you, he’ll find a way to make things to happen.