“Candy says I’ve come to hate my body / And all that it requires in this world” – Lou Reed, “Candy Says” (1968). . Picture: Candy Darling (November 24, 1944 – March 21, 1974) on her death bed, March 1974. Photo © Peter Hujar. . When Candy Darling, who died forty-four years ago today, was in her teens, her mother confronted her about rumors regarding an inclination toward cross-dressing; in response, Candy left the room and reappeared in full gender-affirming attire. . “I knew then,” her mother later said, “that I couldn’t stop Jimmy [Candy’s assigned name]. Candy was just too beautiful and talented.” . By the mid-1960s, Darling was a fixture in Greenwich Village, where she had a number of roles in various experimental theatre projects, including Jackie Curtis’s 1967 play “Glamour, Glory and Gold,” starring Darling and a young Robert DeNiro. After seeing Darling in that role, Andy Warhol cast her in “Flesh” (1968) and as a lead in “Women In Revolt” (1971). . In addition to the Warhol films, Darling appeared in several other independent movies, though her attempts to break into the mainstream were unsuccessful. . Candy Darling died of lymphoma on March 21, 1974; she was twenty-nine. . “Unfortunately before my death,” Darling wrote on her deathbed in a letter intended for Warhol, “I had no desire left for life...I am just so bored by everything. You might say bored to death. Did you know I couldn’t last. I always knew it. I wish I could meet you all again.” . Darling’s funeral drew thousands, including several of the film icons she admired most; Julie Newmar, for example, read the eulogy, and Gloria Swanson saluted Darling’s coffin. #lgbthistory #HavePrideInHistory #Resist #CandyDarling Source: lgbt history