âCandy says Iâve come to hate my body / And all that it requires in this worldâ â Lou Reed, âCandy Saysâ (1968). . Picture: Candy Darling (November 24, 1944 â March 21, 1974) on her death bed, March 1974. Photo Š Peter Hujar. . When Candy Darling, who died forty-four years ago today, was in her teens, her mother confronted her about rumors regarding an inclination toward cross-dressing; in response, Candy left the room and reappeared in full gender-affirming attire. . âI knew then,â her mother later said, âthat I couldnât stop Jimmy [Candyâs assigned name]. Candy was just too beautiful and talented.â . By the mid-1960s, Darling was a fixture in Greenwich Village, where she had a number of roles in various experimental theatre projects, including Jackie Curtisâs 1967 play âGlamour, Glory and Gold,â starring Darling and a young Robert DeNiro. After seeing Darling in that role, Andy Warhol cast her in âFleshâ (1968) and as a lead in âWomen In Revoltâ (1971). . In addition to the Warhol films, Darling appeared in several other independent movies, though her attempts to break into the mainstream were unsuccessful. . Candy Darling died of lymphoma on March 21, 1974; she was twenty-nine. . âUnfortunately before my death,â Darling wrote on her deathbed in a letter intended for Warhol, âI had no desire left for life...I am just so bored by everything. You might say bored to death. Did you know I couldnât last. I always knew it. I wish I could meet you all again.â . Darlingâs funeral drew thousands, including several of the film icons she admired most; Julie Newmar, for example, read the eulogy, and Gloria Swanson saluted Darlingâs coffin. #lgbthistory #HavePrideInHistory #Resist #CandyDarling Source: lgbt history