#buttboy

Problem: he suggested I stay with him instead of booking my own hotel. If I stayed with him, I would explain that intimacy time is designated for the time we originally agreed on (3 hours). He’s not the type to cross the line. And, of course, no price adjustment would be made for the trip even though I’m not booking a hotel of my own. So…

Cons of Staying with Butt Boy

I’m not free to do whatever I want.

I don’t sleep well next to another person.

Even though intimacy would be alotted to a specific time, he gets to enjoy my company for the rest of the night cheaply (even with the money I’d be saving on a hotel of my own).

Pros of Staying with Butt Boy

I save $300 on the hotel expense I built into my costs.

Dinner is on him.

He’s staying at the Ritz (doesn’t count for a whole lot but… ya, no - it’s the Ritz).

Ironically, I’ve learned that he loves when my butt hole smells like poop. 🤷🏾‍♀️ People are really interesting. He’s definitely the most interesting client I have. I used to think British’s fetishes were the most interesting but he doesn’t hold a candle to BB.

If he’s willing to pay more, I’m not against anal if I can safely stretch myself with out getting injured but that shit hurts! I want him to have a great time but I am not sure I will ever be comfortable with anal.

He said a regular overnight is actually what he wants (specifically, a sleepover with “no restrictions” on intimate time). So I gave him an FMTY overnight rate. He agreed to it.

This is really weird because I definitely wasn’t expecting him to go thru with an FMTY.

Anyhow, I guess his finances are closely tied with his wife’s because Venmo/CashApp are out of the question for the deposit. He wants to send a cashier’s check instead. He said he will mail it this Friday when their accountant processes “distributions” for the business.

This will be fantastic. I prayed for one big appointment before my trip to Italy. This trip will be all that I need to continue paying for my hotel (the biggest expense which actually hasn’t been to charged to my card yet).

She might have decided to go because she sensed something was up. I don’t know. I don’t blame her. Despite being a dirty, rotten, cheating scoundrel, Butt Boy is kind of a catch: he is soft-spoken, but an excellent communicator, knows exactly what he wants, runs a very successful business, has a lot of emotional intelligence, and he’s kind of cute.

Anyway, he might still be lying about his reason for canceling. But, based on all our communications, I think he was ready to spend the money.

OMG…

Okay… I am not surprised. Butt Boy cancelled the trip. He just sent me an email saying that, when his wife found out he was staying at The Ritz, she decided to tag along. His email sounds sincere but, who knows. It’s possible he thought about the cost and decided to back out.