#buthurt

We already live in society where every negative thoughts of anything is just treated like a crime, because “someone could felt bad, didn’t you think about it?”. And that’s the most common answer from those cultural fans, who just can’t understand SOMEONE HAS A DIFFERENT OPINION (not to mention those who beggin the discution with hate). There’s NOTHING WRONG with saying you don’t like a character and it’s not your role to decide if that person knows the story well, is smart, stupid, bad or whatever you think. There are many characters in every series and they were made different just so any of us can find the one we like. So don’t act like a child who can’t understand that yours isn’t always on the top. Saying negative things about characters (and actually about EVERY topic) isn’t a crime. It’s just different opinion and should be respected equaly to the positive thing. I’m not saying about hate ofc. But here’s the deal: I have a very strony feeling that over 50% of poeple don’t see a difference between negative and hate, and there’s a huge one. Hate is saying to be rude, to make you feel bad, showing frustration, and negative things are sayed just to show others your (different) way of seeing things and not intended to hurt anyone - just as another voice in the disscustion. So no, not liking a character isn’t a proof of being a hater, ignorant, bad person or any other thing you use to say about them. It’s just a DIFFERENT OPINION and you have to deal with it and respect it. Otherwise noone will respect your opinion. And tbh in last few months I saw so many hate from those you think they favourite characters are hated I’m actually feel terible and I’m worried about all of us.

And the sadest part? Those defenders (that’s how I’m going to call them) are saying that others hate their favourite characters, but the same time many of them (not all ofc, I’m just generalising) are hating those who don’t agree with them. And I’m tired of this. Tired of them, tired off all the comentators who don’t see the obvious. And it’s not beause I’m a fan of someone less popular or being hated in respond, like some of you could say. I actually don’t care if others like my favourite characters or not. When I started my adventure with Kuroshitsuji, for example, I was so alone I didn’t even have anyone to talk to like “hey, I saw the great anime and I love this character” and now I’m the only person beteen my close friends who watch over 100 different series, so it’s common for me that I don’t have anyone to share with my feelings about characters. So no, I don’t need others to think the same way I do. 

Anyway, don’t take it too personal, I’m not saying about anyone precisely, I barely look at post authors because I wouldn’t remember the nicknames anyway (thank you, brain!). It happens in every fandom where are more than one great, popular character. Just stop balming each other, stop hating each other (and find out that your way of defending them is hate itself) and stop looking for someone to blame because you don’t understand the most basic thing in the world: we are DIFFERENT and we have DIFFERENT opinios and that’s what’s beautifull in this world. Accept that we all have our’s own opinions and just say your in the right way. 

I was only saying why was she doing a Wanda face if she was supposed to be someone special? In Spider-Man 2, you had a few shots of girls seeing the hero web away. Did they make a goofy face? Nope. So, not mean to be buthurt. Just saying my peace. Besides, it’s not like this is a full opinion on Hawkgirl just the first appearance.