#bratchilles

Being a Daddy is a state of mind. Putting 100% of your pussy into caring for both physical and emotional needs -Daddies are all about the nurturing. Having a strong sense of fairness. Being strong mentally and having that magnetic confidence all Doms have. And most importantly, being sweet and playful.

Sound familiar, right? coughPatrocluscough So I think Achilles will be attracted to a Dom with these traits.

Aside from being a particular brand of flirty and a rather playful BDSM play, bratting is a way this type of sub establishes trust. BDSM is all about trust. Subs hand control over to their Doms, and this cannot be done safely and consensually without trust. Brats don’t submit without a fight because it’s how they measure who they can trust. Think of it as the saying; ‘if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best' 🥹 (sorry I'm just very passionate about brat play)

So while yes looks do play a role in “types,” the personality is significantly more important to a brat like Achilles. Very few are capable of not just engaging with brat play, but also equally enjoying it. For a Dom, without enjoyment there is no tolerating brat play which can then lead to a bad relationship.

That’s not to say that looks are unimportant to Achilles. Things like honor, status, reputation are very important to him. The Myrmidons, Achilles in particular, are very rich with treasure, have the most beautiful slaves, and have the reputation of ransoming over killing. So I think it’s probably very important to Achilles that his partner be popular and have a good reputation. He would need to be at least conventionally handsome, though if his reputation were *that* good it would make up for the lack of looks (think Socrates and Alcibiades). (I also think Achilles has that flavor of vain where he has to be the pretties, so his partner can't be /too/ pretty.)