setting boundaries might make yourself feel uncomfortable, weird, sad or even guilty but holy shit is it necessary to be a functioning human being. there are different levels of closeness with different people, and that is okay. i cannot keep compromising my peace and comfort for the sake of other people, of those whom i probably don’t even feel that emotionally connected to anyway. i need to remember who i am and that it is okay to not please, like, or even try to see the good in everyone. remember how they made you leave feeling like.










