TEDx: Scott Ely: Free Your Mind to Evolve Faster
TEDX: SCOTT ELY: FREE YOUR MIND TO EVOLVE FASTER
My talk (now on the TEDx YouTube channel) explores one small sliver of the Evolve Faster platform.Ā Specifically, this talk investigates why you might have a significant amount of self-induced āchaosā in your lifeā¦which exposes your mind to getting hacked on multiple levels.Ā However, what if you could learn to hack back?
SUMMARY (Submitted to TEDx): āWe all want more out of life, donāt we? More success, more fun, more travel, more love, moreā¦time. And we blame it all on this last oneālife races along like a chaotic roller coaster, so just blame āno time.ā However, isnāt that just another excuse? Also, what is the āmoreā that weāre really seeking anyway? Iāve been on a cross-discipline journey of experiments for over a decade to try to answer these questions. So what has exploring over 50 countries, building multiple startups and well over 100 in-depth life experiments towards evolving faster taught me about how to get more out of life? The answerāand my storyāmay surprise you. Because to feel alive, you will need to redefine the āmoreā you want out of life. And once you do, something will nag at you every day until you begin to embrace this new vision, question everything and start experimenting to upgrade yourself?ā
http://mashable.com/2014/03/05/american-digital-media-hours/Ā Ā Ā āAccording to a new cross-platform report from Nielsen, our suspicions are confirmed: The average American adult spends 11 hours per day with electronic media. That includes the age-old activities of watching TV and listening to the radio ā which, surprisingly, are the top two digital activities in the average American adultās day. Live TV (per day) = 5:04 hoursā
http://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus.nr0.htm
āWatching TV was the leisure activity that occupied the most time (2.8 hoursĀ per day), accounting for more than half of leisure time, on average, for thoseĀ age 15 and over.ā
Ā http://www.inc.com/geoffrey-james/how-steve-jobs-trained-his-own-brain.html
Steve Jobs: āIf you just sit and observe, you will see how restless your mind is. If you try to calm it, it only makes it worse, but over time it does calm, and when it does, thereās room to hear more subtle thingsāthatās when your intuition starts to blossom and you start to see things more clearly and be in the present more. Your mind just slows down, and you see a tremendous expanse in the moment. You see so much more than you could see before.ā
Ā āIn any case, itās now clear that Jobs was as far ahead of his time in the technology of the mind as he was in the technology of computers. According to no less an authority than Scientific American, the latest neuroscience research proves that meditation techniques that have been around for thousands of years have beneficial effects on both your mind and your body.ā
Ā http://bodyodd.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/03/13/10657767-that-weird-urge-to-jump-off-a-bridge-explained?lite
āā¦explored this freaky feeling and dubbed it high-place phenomenonā¦ā
āIn other words, Hames explained, people misinterpret the instinctual safety signal, and conclude they must have felt an urge to leap.ā
Ā https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/am-i-normal/201110/intrusive-thoughts-normal-or-not
āThese are called intrusive thoughts. They happen to everyone and they can take many forms. Perhaps youāve suddenly had the image of pushing someone off a train platform, kicking a dog, yelling in church, jumping out of a moving car, or stabbing someone you love. While doing or wanting to do any of these things is not normal, having intrusive thoughts like these is normal. Sometimes thoughts like these come to us precisely because we do not want to act in this way; they are simply the most inappropriate thing your mind can imagine.ā
Ā http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/098326337X/
āBrain Rules.ā A general reference on the evolutionary development of the brain.
Ā http://www.amazon.com/Brain-Changer-Harnessing-Brains-Change/dp/193952900X/
āBrain Changer.āĀ A general reference on the adaptive brain.
Ā http://www.sciencemag.org/content/345/6192/75
āIn 11 studies, we found that participants typically did not enjoy spending 6 to 15 minutes in a room by themselves with nothing to do but think, that they enjoyed doing mundane external activities much more,Ā and that many preferred to administer electric shocks to themselves instead of being left alone with their thoughts. Most people seem to prefer to be doing something rather than nothing, even if that something is negative.ā
āResearch has shown that minds are difficult to control, however, and it may be particularly hard to steer our thoughts in pleasant directions and keep them there. This may be why many people seek to gain better control of their thoughts with meditation and other techniques, with clear benefits. Without such training, people prefer doing to thinking, even if what they are doing is so unpleasant that they would normally pay to avoid it. The untutored mind does not like to be alone with itself.ā
Ā http://time.com/2950919/alone-with-thoughts/
āYes, people would rather stick their finger in an electric socket than sit quietly and think. Or rather, men would: 67% of male participants in one study āgave themselves at least one shock during the thinking period,ā write University of Virginia psychologist Timothy Wilson and his co-authors. On average, the study participants who elected to self-zap gave themselves 1.47 shocks in a 15-minute interval ā ānot including one outlier,ā the paper says, in an impressively straightforward way, āwho administered 190 shocks to himself.ā (O.K., they didnāt involve actual electric sockets, but itās still kind of surprising.) Women were far less likely to shock themselves, with only a 25% participation rate.ā
Ā http://www.scientificamerican.com/podcast/episode/guys-prefer-electric-shocks-to-boredom/
āIn the experiment, participants were asked to sit alone in a room for up to 15 minutesā¦with no cell phone, no reading material, no musicāso, nothing to entertain them, save their own rambling thoughts. Afterward, most subjects reported that they found it difficult to concentrate and that they did not enjoy the experience.
Ā āThen, to assess just how much subjects disliked doing nothing, the researchers repeated the experiment. Only this time they gave volunteers the added option of occasionally giving themselves a mild electric jolt. Two thirds of the men in the studyāand one quarter of the womenāchose to take advantage of the shock option at least once during their time out.ā
āThe results suggest that if thereās anything worse than losing your mind, itās getting caught alone with it.ā
Ā http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/21/magazine/do-you-suffer-from-decision-fatigue.html
āThere was a pattern to the parole boardās decisions, but it wasnāt related to the menās ethnic backgrounds, crimes or sentences. It was all about timing, as researchers discovered by analyzing more than 1,100 decisions over the course of a year. Judges, who would hear the prisonersā appeals and then get advice from the other members of the board, approved parole in about a third of the cases, but the probability of being paroled fluctuated wildly throughout the day. Prisoners who appeared early in the morning received parole about 70 percent of the time, while those who appeared late in the day were paroled less than 10 percent of the time.ā
Ā āDecision fatigue helps explain why ordinarily sensible people get angry at colleagues and families, splurge on clothes, buy junk food at the supermarket and canāt resist the dealerās offer to rustproof their new car. No matter how rational and high-minded you try to be, you canāt make decision after decision without paying a biological price. Itās different from ordinary physical fatigue ā youāre not consciously aware of being tired ā but youāre low on mental energy. The more choices you make throughout the day, the harder each one becomes for your brain, and eventually, it looks for shortcuts, usually in either of two very different ways. One shortcut is to become reckless: to act impulsively instead of expending the energy to first think through the consequences. (Sure, tweet that photo! What could go wrong?) The other shortcut is the ultimate energy saver: do nothing. Instead of agonizing over decisions, avoid any choice. Ducking a decision often creates bigger problems in the long run, but for the moment, it eases the mental strain.ā
Ā āDecision fatigue is the newest discovery involving a phenomenon called ego depletion, a term coined by the social psychologist Roy F. Baumeister in homage to a Freudian hypothesis.ā
Ā āThese experiments demonstrated that there is a finite store of mental energy for exerting self-control.ā
Ā āHis studies show that people with the best self-control are the ones who structure their lives so as to conserve willpower. They donāt schedule endless back-to-back meetings. They avoid temptations like all-you-can-eat buffets, and they establish habits that eliminate the mental effort of making choices. Instead of deciding every morning whether or not to force themselves to exercise, they set up regular appointments to work out with a friend. Instead of counting on willpower to remain robust all day, they conserve it so that itās available for emergencies and important decisions.ā
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