Okay so I went to a frat party last night because I wanted to see 22 and so we got there and we were trying to find each other and I saw him before he saw me and he was dancing with this girl in like an actual dancing manner so I was like “yeah, okay, it’s not like we’re dating or anything, he can dance with whoever he wants,” and then I sort of walked away and then I saw him later alone so I finally went up to say hi to him and like immediately after I said hi and introduced the friend I was with, he introduced us to what I thought was one of the freshman pledges and then left and the other guy asked me to dance but I was like “no thanks,” and it turns out that this was probably wise because he was actually a 17-year-old senior in high school and yeah…

But anyway, I met some more people and we were all sitting, talking on a couch in the basement and then we saw 22 go up with his ho and they were holding hands and this really solidified in me that it’s clear that the two or three weeks he was with me all the time and said he wanted to date me and was super sweet was just because I was the flavor of the time because he was like dancing and shit close with this ho and then I was like “omg” so one of my friends was like “OMG I’m going to go pour my beer on him,” and well there’s no convincing the drunk, right? But then she came back downstairs and said they had just been talking and ugh but then I was like “screw boys” so I asked the pledges and friends I was hanging out with if they wanted to dance and then we were dancing in a circle and 22 came back with his ho and so I turned so my back would be to him and I made eye contact with 26 and I thought he was trying to get into our dance circle and I smiled at him and eventually he came and started dancing behind me in that way so I was like “sure, why not,” and eventually 22 left his ho momentarily to tap me on the shoulder and I was like “what?” and he was like “he wants your number."

I thought the guy was one of his brothers and he was trying to set me up with him for brotherhood but 26 was a cadet who had been invited to the party by one of his friends so he didn’t know 22 at all which means that 22 did this in some twisted way for my benefit?

Here is 26's side of the story: 26 got my number because 22 saw me dancing with him and asked the guy if he wanted my number and 26 said yeah so then 22 went to me and was like “he wants your number,"

And here is 22's side of the story:

So apparently 26 had been like looking at me for the entire night but he wasn't making any moves and 22 noticed this and decided to encourage 26 to dance with me and then he hooked him up with my number in the previously mentioned way.

I was freaking out about this for a while, that 26 had wanted to dance with me all night but was too shy to do so. I love shit like this and when 22 told me this I was like "awwwwwww," and 26 and I texted for a couple of days after the party and he seemed pretty solid...

but then he got back with his girlfriend so...

13

We see each other every weekend for viewings of our favorite TV show, we're friends, it's cool.

16

He randomly pokes me on facebook sometimes and who are you even?

19

We cool. Also still see each other a lot as friends.

SOS I touched his butt by accident a while back.

20

Discovered we work at the same place.

22

Still talk a lot and hang out sometimes.

Last Friday he invited me to his frat party and it was nice because he only invited me and we spent most of the time together.

Unfortunately he was drunk and danced with this other girl briefly and this would be fine except dancing in frat parties means grinding by default.

Also in his drunken state he said that he wanted to have sex with me but wouldn't because he wanted our first time to be sober because he liked me a lot and apparently enough to date me.

If you were saying "whut?" when you read the previous bullet point then let me tell you that I'm right there with you.

But we held hands and kissed and stuff and it was cute.

He asked me a few min ago if I wanted to hang out.

Okay so when I went to his apartment on Saturday, we watched Serendipity (aww) and played fifa on x box and we didn't really talk much but I thought it was fine since we were both hella tired.

It wasn't.

Somewhere in this, he decided that he no longer liked me and the texting everyday and poke war on facebook stopped.

16

HE ARRIVES TODAY AND I AM GOING OVER TO HIS APARTMENT TO SEE A MOVIE AND THIS IS NOT A DRILL. I AM SO EXCITED BUT ALSO NERVOUS. I like him soo much and we talk everyday and here is what straight up happened this summer:

So we were talking a lot and then he kind of stopped the constant texting and compliments and everything for like two or three days so I asked him if he still liked me and he said "I don't know how to answer that since we haven't met yet," which would be a logical answer except for this:

and these are just the tumblr things. He told me things like this and more via text. He said he liked me and then he was like "uhh, I don't know, man." 

So I thought that was wack and like backed off a little and like sorta challenged him for a few weeks. For example, I said something mean in a joking manner and he said that I was too nice for that and I said "how do you know that?" and he replied "I know that because I know you," and if you remember, he said that he couldn't tell me if he liked me because he didn't know me so I replied "but you said you didn't know me," and convos like that happened for a while but I eventually decided it wasn't important enough to ruin what we have because, if you also noticed, he got a tumblr for me. It is adorable how we interacted on it (not so much lately :/) 

So yeah. We text every day and snapchat almost every day and we are finally meeting today and omg am I excited to see how this semester turns out. 

I will be going to Chipotle with 19 tomorrow and I will hopefully end the day with a better understanding of what kind of person he is. Wish me luck!

So I think that both he and 19 are very good looking and everything but I don't know, maybe it's because I've talked to 16 more about sexual things (we discussed giving head and at what stages sexual things were appropriate which is why I know about his virginity) but like for some reason I find him really attractive on a sexual level.

I am also attracted to 19 sexually so far but it's not the same feeling of like wanting to jump his bones.

16

Talk everyday now.

This means all of the good morning and goodnight texts, yes.

So the thing is he talked about cuddling and I slyly said something to the effect of "yo I hope you're not cuddling with all these tinder people," and he said that he's seen one girl from tinder but they didn't cuddle and that he occasionally texts other girls but that I'm the only one he's "talking to," and well okay.

So it came out that he's a virgin and I'm not gonna lie that turned me on slightly sexually but a whole lot emotionally

We played the question game again which is my favorite thing ever since the first time we did it got super deep and it happened again but this time it was slightly more relationship directed and here is what was discussed:

He said that one of the only reasons he would stop liking a girl would be because she stopped sending sweet texts or stuff like that and this is perfect because I am the sweetest thing ever.

We agree on the definition of cheating and he is not a homophobe.

HE ASKED ME HOW LONG TWO PEOPLE SHOULD BE TALKING BEFORE THEY CONSIDER A RELATIONSHIP AND DOES THIS MEAN SOMETHING???

He is only into light PDA and yes into sexual things but he is super calm and oh I hope he is.

So yeah we've been talking and flirting daily and like I don't know, it's just really cute.

I snapchat him weird faces and he puts up with me and really isn't this wonderful?

The negative is that I still see he has activity on Tinder and I mean it's whatever, we're not even dating yet but I do wonder what this means if I'm the only one he's "talking to."

He also seems unwilling to buy me cookies which is kind of sketch.

He keeps on talking about "hanging out" and watching movies and getting food but he hasn't actually asked me on a date so this is also pretty sketch.