#bofriend

It’s crazy how when you like or have feelings for someone how your brain can automatically make them your main priority. That’s why people say they’ve lost themselves in relationships and marriages. Give your mind a break. You don’t have to hold the phone for hours waiting for his break at work so you can text him/her again, you don’t have to lose sleep at night staying up texting and talking because you’re scared if you’re not talking to him someone else is, you don’t have to change your style or the way you are to his/her definition of what they find attractive, your mind doesn’t have to be on him/her every second of the day...and there is so much more I can say but we all know what we do to try to maintain our relationships and keep our spouses on their toes. We never realize that in trying to please our partners we lose ourselves slowly. It’s no longer what do I like...it’s what do he/she like. Our only focus is on them and it can keep us from focusing on our goals and what we want out of life. Our society has made everything be about a girl doing everything for a guys attention and vice versa. If you have to go out of your way and change who you are to fit someone’s else perspective is it really love? If I’m changing myself to please you, and you’re changing yourself to please me are we really loving one another’s true selves ?

Just so everyone knows, @kissthulhu is a fantastic human being, and an amazing boyfriend, and I adore him so much I can’t even tell you.