So this year I had my first boyfriend ever, he already broke up with me in May, my mom, sister and brother in law never really liked him, and all that combined with my insecurities and mental health made me doubt about him so much, so I wanted to ask: What where his true intentions towards me? ( my mom said he just wanted to play with me and then leave me)
My initials are BNPN (his are SJCB, just to add)
Sabrina Carpenter's Nonsense is playing when I"m doing this reading. You can take a look at the lyrics to talk about your relationship with him.
I"d say you two were on 2 different wavelengths for a relationship like what he wanted vs what you wanted. You were quite different in terms of what you two cared/valued in life, so that made the relationship difficult. You two also needed different levels of space so that also made the relationship tough. Overall I don't really see you two coming back.
I feel you were more serious about the relationship than he was, but I wouldn't say he was "playing" with you. You just both had different expectations about dating and didn't really communicate each of your expectations before starting the relationship.