i will never find it again bc i have no idea how to search for ig reels on this hell internet but once i saw a reel that was a carpenter being like, i see all these instagram moms who say they are just diyers and they are installing cabinets they built by hand or creating tables using joinery---ladies you are carpenters, you are doing carpentry, this is not diy. which i think is how i feel when you guys post stuff like "i took the engine out of my car, but anyone can do that" or "i make multi-step pieces of art that takes hours and hours to put together, it's whatever" or "i made a sweater with complex stranded colorwork idk it wasn't that hard just a ton of counting" yall are killing me if i tried to do any of that i wouldn't 😭

















