I’m sorry for everyone who has had to deal with this Bs.
As a polyamorous person it makes me laugh anytime someone calls me a cheater.
I was even once called a “consensual cheater” which obviously doesn’t work nor make sense, haha
Just cause it doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean it’ doesn’t work for others.
Either be supportive or move on.
No one’s forcing you to be in their dynamic.
There are many non-monogamous relationship styles\lifestyles.
It’s okay to exist in the same world as them as a monogamous person.
Be yourself. The right people will come around. 😊😊
Feel free to ask questions I’ll be happy to answer. My answers are not the final answer since everyone’s dynamics are different.
However 100% everyone needs to be aware of everyone and all parties have consented to these dynamics. That is 100% true and something everyone in non-monogamy lifestyle practice.
If they are hiding you that is unethical and most likely not a honest dynamic.
That would fall under cheating.